[Aguardiente83]

I'm looking for the answer of women who have Broken up with there b'f's because "they feel too young to be in such a serious relationship and you want time to yourself and be independant and be with friends". My girlfriend just gave me that line about a week ago, we're still friends and talk about 3 times a week, she initiates everything, i never call! When I talk to her I am really cool, funny, and sound like everything is great in the world, she acts the same way but sometimes she gets wierd and trys to hint at something cute or trys to keep me on the phone just a little too long. From a girls point of view, what is she thinking?

[EC]

Aguardiente83

I love aguardiente! Good drink...

anyways......I think she probably just wants to date other people but she likes to string you along.

[LucreziaBorgia]

Originally posted by Aguardiente83
"they feel too young to be in such a serious relationship and you want time to yourself and be independant and be with friends".

From a girls point of view, what is she thinking?

It sounds like she's doing exactly what she said she wanted to. She's out of a serious relationship, she's independent and she still calls you up just like a friend would. Its likely she enjoys you and your company, but didn't want to make a serious relationship out of it. If she starts coming on to you sexually, or suggests you do stuff that couples do without actually being a couple - then she isn't interested in 'just friends' as much as she is 'friends with benefits'. Could be a mix of both, with a little bit of 'backup plan' and 'ego stroking' thrown in. Girls like to be wanted and found attractive but that doesn't mean she wants to be back in a relationship with you.

[FolderWife]

Originally posted by EC
anyways......I think she probably just wants to date other people but she likes to string you along.

yep!

[vickimonster]

She misses you, but what she really wants is to have her cake and eat it! She is not sure she wants to be with you, but she doesn't want anyone else to get to you while she decides. Will she come back or not, don't know. But she will probably 'see' other people while she decides. Question is could you go back to her after that and are you really willing to sit around and wait when she might never come back.

Hey maybe I am wrong but that is what I would guess. Hope it isn't too harsh.

[Aguardiente83]

Great, thats not the reply i was looking for, lol. I was expecting something like "she's probably missing you but is trying to be strong", thanks anyways, hopefully all the other women who answer don't have the same thoughts as you

[vickimonster]

Sorry it isn't what you wanted to hear. But hey better to hear the worse case and then have us proved wrong don't you think. I hope it isn't the way I said! Good luck!