[AndrewJ]

I was at a nightclub last night having a few drinks for a freind that is leaving my town.

I went into a side bar to get a beer and when i opened the door, on the other side was the girl ive been chasing for months with a man dressed in a suit.

We did a bit of small talk then i said mid her sentence Im going. (it may have come across rude, but i couldnt help myselff the chick drives me nuts, because she knows i like her so much)

When i got home i rang her phone but got her meassage bank. With no credit on my phone i decided to text her from my computer.

I awoke this moring to a milion texts in my phone. apprently my romeo efforts were sent to everyone in my address book . All my freinds and family know of me pining for this particular lady. And she still wont reply.

I sent her a text before to say im sorry for being a twit and i hoped she would forgive me but i havent received a reply.

Why do we fools fall in love?

[tokyo]

Originally posted by AndrewJ
Why do we fools fall in love?

Because when the embarrassment is over, you will love about it and congratulate yourself that you had the courage to tell someone you were in love with them. And you will have great stories to tell that will make people laugh. When you can look back and laugh, you will know you made progress, that you are a survivor that didn't let things take him down. You're human and make mistakes that are funny.

I think you need a bit of courage and self-confidence, you look tense and you will give off bad vibes. If you are happy, you will attract people. If you are able to laugh at yourself, I don't mean, laughing in the sense of putting yourself down or ridiculing yourself, then you show that you are someone who is content with himself and that attracts people.

[AndrewJ]

[font=times new roman]Because when the embarrassment is over, you will love about it and congratulate yourself that you had the courage to tell someone you were in love with them. [/font]

Kooky i hope so. I can see the humour in the situation. Thats a start i guess.

I never said those fatal words but my actions spoke louder than any words i could have strung together.

Ill never hear the end of this my mates have been giving me **** all night.

At least I can say i was mad enough to fall in love

[tokyo]

AndrewJ, it was funny. And be glad you have friends who laugh with you. And it could have been worse I think, you could have sent them some really really embarrasing love messages, with little hearts and teddy bears... you know what I mean.

[AndrewJ]

Kooky words of wisdom.

I dont think i would ever leave my house if i had gotten gooey.

So the situation is not really that dire.

Shrug off the comments from mates and keep my nose clean

I just feel ive let her down but i must let it be

[greenhorn]

What a funny story Andrew...I had a good laugh at it..

and yes only Fools fall in love ahaahaha hahahaha

[HokeyReligions]

Laugh with everyone, even though its laughing at yourself -- its the best cure for embarrassment.

[AndrewJ]

I received a text message from this lady this morning.

It read

"Please delete my number now so there is no more accidnetal slip ups.
I am chilled just don't appreaciate random calls in ridiculous hours of the morning.
Good bye Andrew."

Woohooo she gave me both barrells didnt she!

I take it that was not forgiveness?

I want to text her back and say if she could spare it in her heart to give me one more chance.

What should one do in this situation?

Any thoughts ideas gretaly appreaciated.

[tokyo]

Originally posted by AndrewJ
"Please delete my number now so there is no more accidnetal slip ups.
I am chilled just don't appreaciate random calls in ridiculous hours of the morning.

When did you call her??

I take it that was not forgiveness?

Nope.

I want to text her back and say if she could spare it in her heart to give me one more chance.

Grandissimo bad idea. DO NOT BEG HER FOR ANYTHING.

What should one do in this situation?

Any thoughts ideas gretaly appreaciated.

You just write her a very neutral message. As in:"Sorry, I felt that I had misbehaved and thought I should apologize for this. I wasn't aware that I shouldn't have called you at this time of the day anymore (When did you call her? If you called really late, you will look like an idiot if you tell her that you didn't know better. In that case just say:"Also sorry for the late night call.) It won't happpen again and I will erase your number. Bye Andrew" That should leave her pretty defenseless. She's still upset with you, so don't sent anything sweet or you will really annoy. If you respect her privat sphere she will talk to you sooner or later again. Just don't bug her now with any questions or anything.

[sunshinegirl]

Leave her alone.

If she wanted to find room in her heart to give you another chance, she would have repsonded differently to your text from the other night.

She's told you POINT BLANK to not contact her again. If you do, she will go from feeling "chilled" and not appreciating random contact to resenting you and wondering how to get rid of you once and for all. Which will make you feel like crap all over again.

In a nutshell, nothing good will come of you contacting her again. I'm sorry, but it's time to move on.

[AndrewJ]

Kooky,

I wrote a text i said

"please dont be angry with me, too err is human, i am sorry. This wont happen again i will erase your numaber at your request. bye andrew."

I doubt she will even read it or she probably has my number barred from her phone bye now any way.

At least she was honest i guess.

[RecordProducer]

Andrew, remember to not take any actions when you're drunk!
It's the alcohol, not love that makes fools of us.

[AndrewJ]

True worda record producer alcohol makes ones mind not right.

I guess her honesty was what i needed for closure.

Life goes on tho. She be only one gorgeous female on this gorgeous earth.