After 28 years I hav just found my real father; it was pure luck that I picked out the address at random who turned out to be my cousin. Vicky put me in contact with my dad.
I have a sister and brother and my dad is married to psychiatric nurse. I have lern't I have 13 aunts & uncles wich is too me is a hughe family. Its becoming more hard to write the letters. I have so much to tell him and some are bad things that have happend to me. should I tell him?
My father wants to meet me and has tried to trace me on many occassions over the past years. My mother change my surname with out anyone knowing when I was small.
I am pretty scared of meeting them I have lots of mixed emotions at this moment; they seem to be a real nice family. My brother is a fitness instructor and my sister works in lesuire & toursim and my dad is a manager for a supermarket.
He his the missing link to my life, I am happey but also scared.
I understand you being scared.Stick to the good things then when you are ready for the bad things then you can put them out there to. He is your dad. I hope it goes well... Good Luck!
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