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Old 9th March 2005, 8:30 PM   #1
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Unhappy dating inexperienced guys
I have a question, especially for the ladies out there. Why are some girls hesitant to date a guy who hasn't had alot (or any) girlfriends in the past. Why are they scared away by inexperience?
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Old 9th March 2005, 8:37 PM   #2
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They just might be scared because you may not be fully committed to the relationship. Some women really don't care. I guess it depends on the situation.
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Old 9th March 2005, 8:58 PM   #3
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Women that are looking for a relationship are wary because of the lack of "seeing what's out there". They don't want to get involved just for you to say that you need to experience life...

If they are talking sexually, some would love an inexperienced guy to train, and others want a pretrained lover that has all the skill and knowledge necessary to be a great lover.
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Old 9th March 2005, 9:19 PM   #4
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I would be afraid that he would think I was a tramp in comparison to him.

Which I'm not but I've definitely had fun!
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Old 9th March 2005, 9:24 PM   #5
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ok, I appreciate the feedback everybody. i thought part of it might be because a guy who hasn't had much dating experience might be seen as a loser, which would send the girl running when she found out.
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Old 9th March 2005, 9:35 PM   #6
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well, how would you feel about someone who had more experience than you?
a lot more? A bit more? Think about what would surprise you adn what wouldn't?
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