Do any other OW think that MM's wife is so lucky and envy her? I go through that a lot. I guess I am not thinking too clearly though when I think that. Sometimes a friend of mine will make me see how ridiculous that sounds. But then I start thinking it again. Anyone else?
i think in some ways i can understand why many OW would envy the W. afterall that's who MM goes home to, that's who in many cases they end up going home permanently to.
in my case, i didn't envy her at all. i know that i only heard "his" side of things (well, for the most part anyway) but supposedly she was miserable and had been for many years. considering she was planning on divorcing him and had been talking that way for years, she had to have been incredibly unhappy. they seem to have perfected the art of making each other miserable. and yes, i would have loved to have been the one he came home to, but that was as far as my "envy" of sorts went.
i do sometimes ,
but i also have that thought that her relationship is an illusion ,
she thinks he loves her or at least only her
she thinks he's happy obv something is missing if he's with OW
at least with OW he's honest
well mine was!!
he told me he couldn't talk to her like he talked to me,
sexually they are not compatible
me and him were friends 2 years before A.
i think they never had &don't have a friendship ,
sexually they are not compatible
he stayed with her due to insecurity,fear of being alone
then when he felt ready to go she gets preg
he resents her allot he feels she knew he wanted out (they were together 5 years before she gets preg)so she did it on purpose ,
he ended up marrying her ,she pressured him after kid threatened alot
so no i don't
yeah he lays down on her couch every night ,
goes places he doesn't want to
is turned off by her body
hates her personality "cause even if she looked like pam anderson i would still hate her because the way she treats me
i don't envy her &some may say I'm a b*tch ,but i think shes a stupid cow ,she has a great guy &she treats him like dirt
and I'm not just hearing this from him
his father has said he wishes he would just get out of that hell &settle down with me
so don't envy her he most likely is staying because of kids ,comfort zone etc
good luck
Yeah really ..i envy that lady everything! OMG she is so lucky! her beloved H works a lot ( late night ,...whole day...I won`t even go explaining on what he really is working )
He spreads STD around. Gets other ladies pregnant. OMG he is really very busy family man! Yes I envy that lady for sure.
don`t worry we are on the same boat...Since I am starting to feel better an am in good mood too I propose a great thing.
Let us all go to Venice and meet there and have a great party this spring!?!?!?! whopiiii doo .And I am serious!
Right now I'm going through both wanting to see him and feeling used. I think I will see him but not let it go like it has lately which has left me feeling really bad.
NO no ! I meant : Let`s go there and have fun! let`s start this spring in a different, better way! God knows if we meet there and have real fun maybe we can even find someone special there for us! Ladies I think it`s time we have fun and stop this MM crap thinking!
Why not do it in a special way?????
Originally posted by liswil
Do any other OW think that MM's wife is so lucky and envy her? I go through that a lot. I guess I am not thinking too clearly though when I think that. Sometimes a friend of mine will make me see how ridiculous that sounds. But then I start thinking it again. Anyone else?
yes and she is also very lucky bc she is very intimate with a lot of other ladies ( without even knowing that ) bc her beloved H takes care of that part of public relations.
ask yourself this: DO I REALLY WANT WITH ALL MY HEART A LIFE LIKE THAT?
Yeah I know. But I guess I wonder if he'd have cheated if it weren't for me. He seems really freaked out by it and he's the one who stops things from going too far because he can't take the guilt.
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