[fanou22]

If you knew that MM came to LS,

Would you continue posting the same way?
Change the tone of your posts?
Not post at all?

Something I was wondering about.

do you mean MM in general or our particular MM?
if it was my particular MM i would be even more cagey with the details than i am already. i might not even post for the fear of it, or i would totally disguise my manner of expression, i dont think he would bother personally.
if its MM in general then NO why should I?

[lynnered]

you knew that MM came to LS,

Would you continue posting the same way?
yup
Change the tone of your posts?
nope ,maybe post more questions to the MM.
Not post at all?

still would post ,the discussions would be interesting!!

[fanou22]

I meant the particular MM that each one of us is attached to.

[MsMree]

but use a different alias - MsMree would be a dead give away. I must say just the thought makes me a tad bit uncomfortable.

[1Yoyo]

I would continue to post as I have been. I have sent him links to different topics of discussions. He is afraid to post because he fears most of us would take out our anger and frustrations on him and /or he would be bashed. I told him I think he should post because it would be nice to hear what he (the MM) is thinking and why he does the things that he does.

Yo

[lynnered]

I meant the particular MM that each one of us is attached to.

prob not then ,
i don't come here to talk to him!!

[izzybelle]

the thought that my exMM may come here has crossed my mind... but he has no reason to.

honestly, i think he may find some support in helping to make his marriage work but i think the two of them don't want help. i even sent him a link to marriagebuilders, at one point! LOL!!!

i'd probably still post the same as i do, i don't believe i've ever said anything here that he hasn't heard before. he knows my history and if he read the posts, even though my "name" isn't even remotely close to my "real name" i think he could figure it out. at this point in time in the relationship with him, i could care less if he see what i have to say about him and his A with me. he's well aware of how much pain he caused, and in some ways i think it might be good for him to see the damage, from this side, and from the infidelity side, that his A has or could have caused.

i've been tempted to tell him about the site, but also know that he has little time to be searching around on the internet for things like this. he knows i post somewhere, and at first was uncomfortable and i removed myself, then decided a few months later i could care less if he was uncomfortable, i needed the support, and i couldn't get it from him, so i signed back on under a different name. i would be curious to hear what his views would be on all of this after reading many of the posts here. whether he's been here lurking, or not it don't know. i also been curious whether his W has ever been here..... that could prove to be more interesting!!