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Old 28th February 2005, 9:50 AM   #1
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If you had the chance, what would you change about yourself? Physical or mental.

What would you change if you had the chance. I mean not just plastic surgery, also actually things that, as of now, they can't fix. For me, my head is too small for my body and my one breast is larger. And what about personality? I would change the fact that i don't really speak my mind too much. I hold a lot of stuff in. What about you guys?
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Old 28th February 2005, 9:57 AM   #2
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For looks I would change my nose in a heartbeat. I was going to do it untill they told me it would cost 6000.00 dollars. I can wait!

As for personality the fact that my good heart gets in the way of dealing with situations and people and I end up being the nicer, bigger person. And people know this and so I hate it. For ex; If my mother has to give my brother and I a present and she only has a real expensive one that cast 300.00 dollars and a certificate to a restaurant....she'll think well let me give the certificate to EC because shes humble anything will do for her and lets give her brother the 300.00 so that he wont complain.

I hate that!
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Old 28th February 2005, 10:07 AM   #3
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A permanent drop to a size 6.
A breast lift and reduction.
A permanent removal of leg hair.
No more headaches (perm. brain scarring, no help there but it would be nice if it could be fixed )
A better sense of self-worth in terms of career and personal achievement.
An ability to attract large amounts of money.
A more even temper.
Instant long hair (trying to grow it back, wish I could snap my fingers and have it back to where it was)
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Old 28th February 2005, 10:13 AM   #4
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I wouldn't have diabetes and RLS.
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Old 28th February 2005, 10:26 AM   #5
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Height from 5'6" to 6'
my face because I suffer from facial disfigurement (car accident 10 years ago) that left my left cheek swollen in my face so I have a face that looks like I was punched in the face.
my legs cause one leg is about half an inch shorter than the other (due to car accident)

but all this is not stopping me from living my Life. I sometimes am self-conscious (usually aroudn extremely pretty girls) but now I see the inner beauty (which is the real them) instead of what they are strutting around (looking to be laid by a Mr. GQ)
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Old 28th February 2005, 10:29 AM   #6
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I wish my tongue was 9000 miles long.
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Old 28th February 2005, 10:31 AM   #7
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I wish my tongue was 9000 miles long.

Mine is, almost.

I'd make myself better at returning phone calls, a more conscientious employee, and less of a procrastinator.

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Old 28th February 2005, 10:32 AM   #8
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I've beaten my habit of procrastination. Whenever I feel like I'm going to procrastinate, I simply put it off until tomorrow.
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Old 28th February 2005, 10:35 AM   #9
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No Blue Tuesday, you cannot be the Lizard Queen

If I could get anything I could want, I would wish my mind could not confuse myself anymore, i.e. complete clarity of mind. It would instantaneously cure me from my occasional temper.
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Old 28th February 2005, 10:42 AM   #10
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I've beaten my habit of procrastination. Whenever I feel like I'm going to procrastinate, I simply put it off until tomorrow.

Now that's what I'm talking about.
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Old 28th February 2005, 11:23 AM   #11
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As for personality the fact that my good heart gets in the way of dealing with situations and people and I end up being the nicer, bigger person. And people know this and so I hate it. For ex; If my mother has to give my brother and I a present and she only has a real expensive one that cast 300.00 dollars and a certificate to a restaurant....she'll think well let me give the certificate to EC because shes humble anything will do for her and lets give her brother the 300.00 so that he wont complain.

I hate that!
Thats my exact problem. I'm to nice of a person to say anything. Oh don't worry, Lex wont mind taking this old T shirt while her sister takes this brand new car. But there has to be a line somewhere!
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Old 28th February 2005, 11:34 AM   #12
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I'd fix this stutter of mine.
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Old 28th February 2005, 11:41 AM   #13
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Well physically I would love to be skinny. I never have been. I have always been thick.
I would like to have plastic surgery on my arms because I am so self consious about that part of my body.

My personality is great the only thing I would change is the ability to say no and to stand up for myself more. I'm the type of person that people take advantage of and it's hard for me to say no to ppl. I'm often told that I'm too nice.
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Old 28th February 2005, 12:03 PM   #14
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I'd fix this stutter of mine.
I would recommend that as well. Not that i actually listen to the utter stupidity that comes out of you mouth. I am hearing it. So please for your sake and mind, how about you just stop talking all together!
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Old 28th February 2005, 8:11 PM   #15
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Hmm.. My struggle is doing what needs to be done, when it needs to be done

Responsibility for making a "plan" in life doesn't come easy for me.. the rest of my family is amazing with this.. they all have budgets, organization etc... I tend to let things come as they may and not worry about things.. damn!
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