[scarface]

hey guys

i posted earlier about the chick problems i have been having lately. well this is about the same chick in case you read my previous post

i went over to her house last night and we hung out watching movies for a couple of hours. she didn't even acknowledge taht i was in the room...i mean even during the movie taht she could quote...she was watching it like it was a life or death matter...do you think she might be shy or something? i mean even if she was interested we couldn't have done anything with her little sister watching the movie with us. i am tired of wating so i have decided to confront her directly...but what i don't know what to do...how should i go about it? very directly like "do you like me" or indirectly? i just don't know how to go about it...how you would you do it and if any ladies are reading this how would you rathar be approached. I don't want to lose the possibility of a friendship if she isn't interested i just don't want to get too involved with the chance of being let down.

thanks in advance

[rowi1116]

you could ask her, " are we hanging out as friends? because i am interested in you, but i am unclear if you know that"

[LucreziaBorgia]

I don't want to lose the possibility of a friendship if she isn't interested

You can give yourself the kiss of relationship death: tell her that you like her, but that you genuinely enjoy her company and are OK with friends. From your last thread, and this one - she is putting some definite 'friend' boundaries up. Even shy girls give positive body language and signals - this girl, shy or not is sending the unmistakable "I like you, but not like that" signals. So, consign yourself to 'just friends', but be aware that once you get there its pretty hard to become more than that later on.