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Old 16th February 2005, 10:40 AM   #1
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i am falling for my best friend!

i've been good friends (platonic) with this guy for more than a year. i didn't feel any romantic feelings towards him up until recently... when i realized how great he is to be a bf... i realized that when he started seeing this girl and he tells me things he does to her and all (he was single when we first met)..... i just realized all this time, he's the kind of guy i really want to be with!

i'm liking him more each day. and last night, i came over to his place to borrow a software and also to fix my mp3 player.... i haven't seen him in a while before that... for some reason, he was looking hotter!

is it wrong to develop feelings for him? i don't think he knows that i do... and i don't think he would have any remote feelings towards me. he's head over heels in love with this girl....

i don't think she's right for him (she broke up with him before for no apparent reason, via email....) of course i would never tell him how i really feel about her.

maybe i should just keep my feelings to myself and play the ever-understanding friend that i am? what do you guys think?
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Old 16th February 2005, 11:40 AM   #2
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Well.. hmm.. the only thing i could tell u is give little hints.. like joke around sayin u no u think im hott. lol and things like that. see what he says. and if u really think that this girl is rong for him. talk to him. he's ur best friend and u are to him. u should be able to talk to him about things. i mean u care about him u dont want him to get hurt. and who knows u guys may end up together. but u should definitly talk to him about it. but slyly dont slip and start saying mean things about her. then he will just get mad.
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