Hi Patty! I'm sooo happy that you're in a language exchange program! I'm very proud of you for making the important step of learning Spanish. Don't let this one mean person make you feel bad about making friends through this program.
Don't let him make you feel bad, you have no reason to run off to another country to meet a stranger and if he is rude because you are uncomfortable or because you said "no" to this very unreasonable request my advice is..........don't talk to that particular person anymore! And good luck with your Spanish!