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Old 27th January 2005, 10:09 AM   #1
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Let Sleeping Dogs Lie Conclusion???
Hi all and thanks for all your very interesting posts that really got me thinking.

My conclusion to this is as follows:

I am not sure that my wife cheated on me PHYSICALLY that night and after 11 years, I do owe her the trust that she's earned and will say that she didn't. (I think out of respect for me)

However she DID cheat on me EMOTIONALLY by being attracted to another man and for a few days thinking about the possibility of seeing him again.

To her, I think this emotionnal cheating was the most important thing and whether she physically cheated or not is irrelevant.

I guess I will let it go, thank my good fortune that she did end up picking me but it shows you how fragile a relationship can be.

My wife and I fell in love at first sight and have been passionately in love with each other for ever and yet, the right event (a wedding), the right mood (a beautiful beach at sunset) and the right guy (a handsome succesful single) can screw up EVERYTHING...

This means you shouldn't take ANYTHING for granted and make efforts on a daily basis to show your love for your spouse....
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Old 4th February 2005, 7:47 PM   #2
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God bless you hun that's very admirable that you can stay so faithful to your wife and have the passion and love you have since day one KUDOS!!!


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Old 5th February 2005, 11:41 AM   #3
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you shouldn't take ANYTHING for granted and make efforts on a daily basis to show your love for your spouse....
Wise words. Sadly this is something I failed to do......hence is why I guess I became a BS

Good luck to you both
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