LoveShack.org Community Forums

Reload this Page LoveShack.org Community Forums > Platonic > Friendship

She's Stealing My Life!

Register Community Guidelines FAQ Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Friendship Having issues with a friend? Get it off your chest!

Old 21st January 2005, 8:56 PM   #1
J.LO
Established Member
 
J.LO's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: New York
Posts: 54
Angry She's Stealing My Life!

There is this girl that is driving me nuts! She keeps copying me!
My hair, clothes, makeup (trys to do that) jewlery. I dont know what to do!
Her and i were never really freinds....but at one point last year we kinda were...but not close. She also seems to like everything i like. Shes trying to be me. And her friends are all in on it,....cuz they telll me when iam coming, and what my hair is like(what side i part it on) My best friend heard them too!
Iam going crazy, cuz i really cant stand her! She is a real snob.
And if i like a guy and she finds out,... she trys to get him. It's crazy!
Iam sick of it...but ! i dont want to talk to her, and tell her to stop copying me.
What can i do????
She trys to get me mad by hanging off guys, but i dont know why, cuz the ones she hangs off i dont like. And she looks at me and smirks alot too.
She freaken studies me! She looks me up and down, and so does her friends!
I cant take it anymore! I dont want her to do this, i want nothing to do with her!
Shes taking my life! I want it back! I even cut my hair off....so i didnt have to have the same lenght hair. Our hair was even almost the same lenght!
And she even borrows her friends clothes to mimic me. If i wear black, she does.
I even changed my clothes around so she cant know what iam going to wear that day...but she still seems to some how get something similar. We are enemies!
And why would she want to be like me? She is miss popular, who can get anybody.
I dont get it? Now, she studied my hair, and i hope she doesnt cut hers. I will cry if she does.
I cant take it! Please if you have advice from me.....i would appreciate it alot!!!
thanks sooooo much!~!!~!~!~!~!~~!!!!!!!!
j.LO
J.LO is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 22nd January 2005, 11:33 AM   #2
Sarah12385
Established Member
 
Sarah12385's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Posts: 285
ignore her. she probably knows it's bothering you, which probably makes her feel good about it.

don't change yourself because of somebody else.

she's playing a child's game it seems.

and if she's copying you so much, maybe it's a compliment. apparantly she wants to be like you.

i wouldn't worry too much about it. i'm sure it'll get old sooner or later


~Sarah~
Sarah12385 is offline   Reply With Quote
 

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

 
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
She's cut herself out of my life, and I'm heartbroken. What do I do? TS Second Chances 7 9th September 2004 9:28 PM
stealing is wrong aquaria127 Family 18 14th July 2004 5:50 PM
Is Wife Stealing From Me? Craig Marriage & Life Partnerships 5 24th June 2004 1:50 AM
She's leaving me, But wants me in her life still. How can I cope with that? photoshop Breaks and Breaking Up 16 20th January 2004 3:31 PM

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 4:32 PM.

Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.


Copyright © 1997-2008 LoveShack.org. All Rights Reserved.