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Old 19th January 2005, 3:48 AM   #1
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Hello internet buddies.... this is Nan's boyfriend, i just wanted to say that we are back together now... i have stopped being a dumbass... i made a mistake, i thought that i could run away from true love before it left me because i was scared... i felt that i wasnt right for nan because i felt she was too good for me... but in reality shes perfect for me... you only find true love once... and thats the truth... i would like to tell people that are having similar problems to hang in there and work it out because in the end... its awsome to be in love... i would like to make this stand out so i will type this in big letters .... YOU CANT REPLACE SOMEONE THAT IS VERY IMPORTANT AND MEANS EVERYTHING TO YOU... IT JUST DOESNT WORK.... WHEN YOU FIND SOMEONE SPECIAL.... HANG ON TO THEM AND DONT LET THEM GO... i understand that i made a mistake and it feels horible to think of losing someone that means the world to you... me and nan talked about our problems and i told her that she is the only one that i will ever love and the only one that i will be in love with and nothing will ever change that... ive always said that and i have always ment that... nan is the best girl and to just give up on a 3 year relationship is dumb and selfish... BRYANA I LOVE YOU... IM SORRY FOR BEING A DUMBASS AND IM SORRY I HURT YOU... I WILL MAKE IT UP TO YOU ... I PROMISE ... IM STAYING RIGHT HERE... I WANT TO MARRY YOU.... THAT WAY YOU WILL NEVER GO AWAY... YOUR STUCK... NO PRENUP BECAUSE WE ARE BOTH POOR....(and i have no job)+no car+no education ... i guess you can call me a loser ... but a loser in love ... but really folks ... i win ... i have a beautiful girl next to me that loves me... and thats all that matters... and i love her too

Thanks everyone for all your support ... with out you fine people me and Nan might not be together... i love you guys...
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Old 19th January 2005, 9:08 AM   #2
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dont fuc|< this one up or we will all kick yer arse nan's b/f !! haha.. boy im waiting for the day I have a post like this saying I am back with my Ex.... O well...

We are all glad for you nan !! You can still stop by the board and post but im sure you wont cuz you got yer man back !! Well I hope that you NEVER have to post on here again, unless its to give advice !!

TAKE CARE !!

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Old 19th January 2005, 11:09 AM   #3
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wow. Nan and her bf thats awesome. I am so glad that you two worked things out. Its so cool that you, the source of all this debate and discussion, would sign on and explaining everything and thanking us. Wow.

Nan this guy is great. And hey bf she is great too... so youre both lucky. Take care and as long as you listen and love eachother you dont need luck (but Im wishing it anyway)

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Old 19th January 2005, 11:38 AM   #4
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Congrats Nan and b/f I am happy for the 2 of you!

Be good to her Nan's b/f or we will come and straighten ya out again
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Old 19th January 2005, 3:37 PM   #5
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Old 24th January 2005, 12:51 AM   #6
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Thank you everyone! I'm so lucky to have this person in my life. I love him more than anything. We've both had very hard times this year and it weighed on our realationship to the point where we were wondering if we were here just to be here, or if we were really here because we wanted to.

We never fell out of love, just had some hard times, and some things happen that made us realize that we belong together.

Now if I could only convince my parents of this. He loves me so much and I love him the same. Since our hard times this year, we both had to move back in with our parents. My mom likes to but into my business and tell me how to live my life. She disapproves of the situation and us getting back together. I wish she would just look at the smile on my face and think that was enough.

I mean, since we got back together (this is going to sound cheesy corny and dumb) but my face actually hurts because I haven't smiled this much in a long time. Why can't she just except me and him and let us be happy?

We are working right now on getting our jobs in order, some bills payed, and some stuff handled so that we can move out again very soon and not have to deal with this bullcrap anymore. I hate that my mom is making me feel that I need to choose sides, him or her.

But I love them both and I won't choose sides, all I can do is make myself happy, which is with my bf, and if she doesn't like it then that's okay, but she will still be around if I need her, she's my mom she has to be.

So yeah I guess that's it, I'm so lucky to be in love (probably everyone wants to slap me for that last part...sorry!)

Nan
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