Ok, this is a question that has always interested me.
While many, including me, think that beautiful women have no trouble getting men, there is some that think they actually have a hard time getting dates. That they are so intimidating to men that they never get asked out.
So, my question is, do you believe this? That some, not all of course, beautiful women are actually lonely and don't get asked out much?
The funny thing is that I was watching a talk show one time where there was this "too good looking" guy with a great personality that couldn't get dates. It was funny, the women were all swooning over him in the audience. The whole show was basically about people who were "over-qualified" for the opposite sex.
Well, who is dumb enough to say they are too good looking for dates? But I agree with it to some extent. I made a post to a women who said she was educated and good looking but couldn't get dates.
However, I think it is even harder to get dates when you are smart and successful in a career as a woman added. Let's face it, if your a good looking, smart, rich girl with a master's from the Ivy league university you've eliminated a lot of men. I mean 20% or less of the US has college, then add good careers, a job or past a bachelor's degree. It starts shrinking with many people unwilling to date someone way off their path of education or income. It's been hard for me making more money and having more education than people I date and men don't like it.
And I do think men are more hesitant to ask a hot girl out than an average one.
I don't want to toot my own horn here, but I've been told many times that I am a beautiful and smart girl, and I am currently doing my master's degree, and yes, I am lonely at times! I have been asked out before but I haven't found anyone that I could see myself having a future with. I've been told that many guys are scared to ask me out, which REALLY sucks! I have heard that many guys would like to date a smart and good looking girl, yet the people I see them actually dating, may be good looking, but definitely not smart. I can never understand how you can date someone that you can't have an intelligent conversation with. I know this is really stupid, but sometimes I don't even want to tell people that I'm doing my master's or sound like I'm too smart b/c it really scares guys away. How unfortunate.
If someone could please explain this or give us some advice on what to do, that would be great!!
sorry to burst your bubble DEBO but all the beautiful women I know personally are never without men. They go out and get hit on by 10 men per evening and choose the guy they like most.
I know a good looking friend of mine, Theresa, who goes out with a new dude every weekend.
The saying that good looking gurls stay at home on Sat nite alone is a total myth. Go to any bar, which women are getting approached by men? The good looking ones.
Alphamale, you are forgetting something here... they may be getting hit on but it doesn't mean they are not lonely.
If she goes home with any man at the bar and is hot then it's all the more reason to assume she is lonely. Because she is risking rape or assault with a stranger whose been hitting the booze.
Say she is getting hit on in a class, or some other kind of place that is less sleazy. If she looks like super hot more than likely she isn't going to find herself equal with many of the men who ask her out. I take great care in my appearance, I work out, I've done modeling. Why do I want to date some guy missing his front tooth or carrying more than 30 extra pounds?
And as I stated earlier, if she has a profitable career and then is above average in intellect, looking for that playing field to be equal in a mate... she is more alienated.
"If she looks like super hot more than likely she isn't going to find herself equal with many of the men who ask her out. I take great care in my appearance, I work out, I've done modeling. Why do I want to date some guy missing his front tooth or carrying more than 30 extra pounds?
And as I stated earlier, if she has a profitable career and then is above average in intellect, looking for that playing field to be equal in a mate... she is more alienated."
Well, to be quite honest, it sounds like you are an elitist who considers other human beings as being lower than yourself. I tend to believe that all people are equal, but maybe that's just me.
Why do I want to date some guy missing his front tooth or carrying more than 30 extra pounds?
You know tooth can be lost in few minutes and 30 pounds are not too hard to gain. The guy you pick up and marry can get it later. Will you leave then? Just curios.
No, she wasn't, but I was able to overlook it and still give her a chance. Not like you, who is looking for the supreme being of a mate. Oh, let's all bow down to you, the supreme being of the human race! You are so much better than all of us in everway. We will all stop breeding from now on and just make clones of you. You can even document your genetic supremecy in Mein Kampf II. When should we start heading off to the concentration camps, your heiness, to rid the world of our genetically inferior DNA?
Loneliness has nothing to do with getting dates or being at home; being beautiful or being homely. It has to do with being happy with yourself. Some beautiful women are lonely and some are not. Some average looking women are lonely and some are not.
The absolute WORST case of loneliness doesn't even come close to what it feels like to be in a bad relationship or half of a stinking marriage. I'll take loneliness any day in lieu of being on a date with a lady who can't talk or who farts after her meal.
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Tony
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Well Bob, based on your assumptions it sounds like you should rid yourself of some bad DNA, please. I have dated someone who is 30 pounds overweight for a year who had a chipped front tooth too. I have dated people who make less money, I have dated people with no education past high school.
But I must be a bad person because I don't want to be with someone who has the short falls of all. Half my income, half my education and doesn't match my health conscious lifestyle. That is not superficial.
If you are telling me you'll date a girl with half your ambition, less education than you, missing teeth who was much heavier than you all rolled into one than I seriously doubt your truthfulness.
If I married a guy I would go in knowing that he could get sick and not work, put on weight, become handicapped and give up activity. But I would love him a great deal I'm sure. That's what a marraige is all about. But would I go in expecting that, no of course not.
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