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I don't understand why you keep starting threads on this (basically the same) topic, yes oral sex=sex no it's not "okay" that your "MM" is getting oral sex from yet "another" "OW" (not you, and not his wife).
In most (I'd hope) opinions it isn't right and you shouldn't put up with it! BUT if you WANT to go ahead and deal with it and allow him to treat you this way (since you can't CHANGE him but you can LEAVE him) then, yes for your world it's "okay"
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getting blown is cheating.. i consider just making out cheating.. even a kiss on the lips. If its on the cheek from a friend its ok but any kiss on the lips to me is cheating. but making out or fuc|<ing someone is the same to me. CHEATING..
Originally posted by Mustard Bomb
Yes. Even if you don't inhale.
That depends on what your definition of is, is .
Yes, getting blown is cheating. If it was like shaking hands, well I'm willing to bet a lot more people would be happier in this world (more std's too though).
'Hi, are you here for a package tour or would you just like a blow job?" "Nice to meet you, mind if I go down on you?"
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OK LOL! So what would he say if a guy went down on you...What would his 'expression' be then? Would it still be considered "shaking hands and nothing?" I bet you he would do a 180 and say ohhh, but that is different!
I wish I had thought of that "it's just like shaking hands" line. Social functions would be so much more interesting. Just imagine the receiving line at a wedding. Instead of kissing the bride on the cheek she goes down and takes a load.
Simple solution Marge. Nest time you and this doofus are out somewhere, and you meet a guy he knows, when he sticks out his hand to introduce himself to you, go down on him and tell your guy you are just shaking hands. I guarantee he changes his tune reeeaaaaal quick.
Oh yeah, Male here.
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Originally posted by Devildog I wish I had thought of that "it's just like shaking hands" line. Social functions would be so much more interesting. Just imagine the receiving line at a wedding. Instead of kissing the bride on the cheek she goes down and takes a load.
Simple solution Marge. Nest time you and this doofus are out somewhere, and you meet a guy he knows, when he sticks out his hand to introduce himself to you, go down on him and tell your guy you are just shaking hands. I guarantee he changes his tune reeeaaaaal quick.
Originally posted by Devildog
Simple solution Marge. Nest time you and this doofus are out somewhere, and you meet a guy he knows, when he sticks out his hand to introduce himself to you, go down on him and tell your guy you are just shaking hands.
Right....and MARGE you should let his friend ejaculate in your mouth, HA AH HAH HA AHAHA HHA AH HA AHAHA HAHH A
Originally posted by RowanRavyn
I have orgasmed from strange things before, but never from a hand shake.
YES, hello its cheating.
I am a female.
LOL! We may need to explore these other 'strange things' in another thread!
Yes, its cheating. Can you get an STD from oral? Yes? Well then since STD is SEXUALLY transmitted disease then it's sex and if you consider sex with someone other than your SO cheating, oral is cheating.
Now, if he feels its no different than a handshake, tell him you would like to get some 'shakes' from some of his friends just to be polite, and to see if they have a, uh, firmer grip than him!
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Is getting blown cheating? Note if you are m or f
What did SHE just say (and she said it out loud)?!?
Love is an easy word to say.
Make him prove it with his actions.
I wish I had thought of that "it's just like shaking hands" line. Social functions would be so much more interesting. Just imagine the receiving line at a wedding. Instead of kissing the bride on the cheek she goes down and takes a load. 
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