I need to delete my ex from Instant messengers

emotionsmessmeup · 14th January 2005, 11:51 AM

Ok...
do i have to delete him?
why the hell cant i gather the guts..
I dont wanan see him there day and night...
and know when he is away or idle..
and I know I am gonna have to delete him.. or will I...URGHHHH

IhavenoFREAKINclue · 14th January 2005, 11:53 AM

YES!!!!!!!!!! Delete him from AIM Yahoo and even your cell phone.. I did and believe me i have so much closure. You will feel better. I know this is redundant but NC does work!!!!!Out of sight out of mind!

Pocky · 14th January 2005, 11:54 AM

Just delete him.

emotionsmessmeup · 14th January 2005, 12:07 PM

the problem is he has been trying to talk to me..
god...so much confusion in my head...

iceisles · 14th January 2005, 12:16 PM

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Originally posted by emotionsmessmeup
the problem is he has been trying to talk to me..
god...so much confusion in my head...

Block him AND delete him. Do it. You will feel better.

tiki · 14th January 2005, 12:21 PM

Just take him off, you're obsessing. And it's not good.

Anyway, it's not like he can't contact you if he *really* needs you.

I've been where you are...take him off. Move on.

Just Visiting · 14th January 2005, 12:43 PM

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Originally posted by tiki
Just take him off, you're obsessing. And it's not good.

Anyway, it's not like he can't contact you if he *really* needs you.

I've been where you are...take him off. Move on.

Same here....been there and done that. Better off in the long run.

Isabella82 · 17th January 2005, 2:49 PM

Its so bad.....I blocked my ex from instant messanger...so he can't see when I am on. But then I have this secret screen name that I see if he is on, and he always has away messages up, and every time I read them I just feel worse and worse....its so bad everyday I wake up and I say I am not going to go online today and check, and then there I am checking.

emotionsmessmeup · 17th January 2005, 3:50 PM

I deleted him..
I didnt block him..so that i can kinda leave the communication open to him..
BUT I DELETED HIM..
and I did that today..so far i feel awsome..then again who knows tomorrow i might not feel the same way..

concrete rose · 18th January 2005, 1:41 AM

Omigosh! i'm in the same boat!! I block and delete my ex but then i add him back on again! i keep doing it everytime i go on my messenger! i can't get myself to stop adding him. sometimes i just add him back on but i don't unblock him...I know i have to stop this!

tiki · 18th January 2005, 10:18 AM

You guys do have to stop this...it's a little on the obsessive side, wouldn't ya say?

emotionsmessmeup · 18th January 2005, 10:51 AM

I WONT ADD HIM BACK
I deleted him but i ddint unblock him for 1 reason...so that fi he wanted to reach me..he can..
and every time he is ot reaching out to me..I realize I should froget about him.

18th January 2005, 11:41 AM

When I have a hard time doing something I know I should- deleting an ex from IM, for example- I enlist the help of a friend, and have her do it for me.

greenhorn · 18th January 2005, 2:34 PM

i am also not having the guts to delete my ex and it really hurts when you see your ex online.

I have thought of a way i will make a new id and then add to it all those whom i want to chat and in future use this new id.

I guess this i can do.

emotionsmessmeup · 18th January 2005, 2:53 PM

nope then u will be on the ew id forever..
DELETE HIM...U GOTTO DO IT..
if u dont wanna delete now..gather the courage...take ur time...
i am sure u will reach a point where u'll wanna delete him..