Healing : )

butterfly319 · 13th January 2005, 6:07 PM

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t54468/

I'm going to be ok. We are all going to be ok. Let's not depend on them to make us happy. Happiness comes from inside. What we MAKE of the situation is what it really is. I don't need him/her, you don't need him/her. It's just a matter of time before the pain is over and we find someone that truly, truly loves us for who we are. It hurts right now, because the feelings are still there--but let's just deal with it. It's ok. Let's stay positive. Why should we have to run circles around someone who won't do the same for us? Reality has finally hit me, and I'm going to be ok.

kypepeo · 14th January 2005, 3:24 AM

Good for you!! The best thing about all these is that you now know that you have the strength to get up after falling and therefore, nobody can ever make you feel less than you are. Nobody should ever try to walk all over you now!! In every experience,however painful, there's a lesson and we never have to regret having gone thru it.

iceisles · 14th January 2005, 12:14 PM

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Originally posted by butterfly319
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t54468/

I'm going to be ok. We are all going to be ok. Let's not depend on them to make us happy. Happiness comes from inside. What we MAKE of the situation is what it really is. I don't need him/her, you don't need him/her. It's just a matter of time before the pain is over and we find someone that truly, truly loves us for who we are. It hurts right now, because the feelings are still there--but let's just deal with it. It's ok. Let's stay positive. Why should we have to run circles around someone who won't do the same for us? Reality has finally hit me, and I'm going to be ok.

I'll have what you're drinking.

Seriously, though, it's great when you can find strength. I can most times, but now is not one of them. I hope as I get older, I will be immune to heartache. Don't know if that's wishful thinking, though.

butterfly319 · 15th January 2005, 3:22 PM

Thanks. And even I know that tomorrow I may be crying over him but as long as I remember that it's just for a little while, I'll be ok. I mean c'mon. After all, he's just a guy! Wow, that made me feel good lol. I'm going to be patient. Not going to look for another guy to fill his space....just learning, healing, growing and living my life to the fullest. Cool huh?

debs · 15th January 2005, 3:28 PM

Eh Ice?

If you learn the secret of being immune to heartaches would you let me know?

I am older and it still hurts!

Oh butterfly, things will and do get better.

Sorry to say some have the major ups and downs.

Some chose to find a replacement and fast!

I wish you luck butterfly and do but remember all of LS is here for you!