Me and my boyfriends are currently in a long distance relationship because of school (college). We've been together for about 5 years and we love each other vary much. But the problem is that we have not seen each other for about 6 months. I miss him vary much and I know he misses me a lot too. He wanted to come see me during the winter break but he got an opportunity to take a class ,so that next term he can just take 2 classes and relax ( he will be graduating in the summer time), We agreed that school comes first so he is currently taking those classes. But the problem is that every single day we talk he tells me how much he misses me and needs me and is basically lonely, and I feel the same way so I said ,well then he could come see me during spring break if he cant make it during the winter break and he tells me that we need to leave it up to god if we look forward to it to much it wont come true.
The thing that kind of annoy me is that he keeps saying lets leave it up to god like god is going to buy his plane ticket for him and mail it to him.And he really spent a lot of money on me for my Christmas gift and he also purchased a Sidekick 2 so we will be able to send each other pictures and basically be able to communicate more. And he fells like he wants to pay all that money off before he can spend money to come see me (he is that type of person who uses his credit card and pays it off the next day or at least the within 2 weeks) So I tell him yes we can leave it up to god but come on just tell me that yes you will be coming on spring break just to make me feel a little better and he just says lets leave it to god I don't want you to get all happy that I am coming and what if I cant come or something happens so lets not get too happy about this and I want to pay off my credit card bill. And oh this guy is pissing me off I mean he talks about seeing me all the time and I am doing him and me a favor telling him he can come see me and he is saying lets leave it up to god, I even offered to pay for it but he doesn't like that idea.
So today we got into a big argument about this situation and him telling me lets leave it up to god once again ( it's not that I do not believe in god I really do ) so I got pissed and I said whatever I will never talk about this situation again I do not care it's done, and he started getting mad and said I am pissing him off he misses me more anyway and blab lablab and how it seems like I want to run this and he said I am not running anything and that he is going to run this I was like what the bleep your bull**** and I hung up. So I am just like what is going on all I want to do is see him and he wants the same but this leaving it up to god stuff and him telling me not to think about it too much because the things you look forward to usually do not come true. Now I hung up on him because what he said and we are not talking. I don't know but am I overreacting because I am going through certain things right now or am I basically right for what I did.
I mean I love him and want to call him but I feel that I don't even know what I feel right now I am sorry I just need some advice please I'm just really stressed out this long distance is driving me crazy both of us wow please give me some kind of advice.

[Pocky]

Has he always been adverse to making travel arrangements? When you two lived near each other would he make plans or did everything just have to "happen"? Is this completely out of character for him?

Originally posted by KimmyP
Me and my boyfriends are currently in a long distance relationship because of school (college). We've been together for about 5 years and we love each other vary much. But the problem is that we have not seen each other for about 6 months. I miss him vary much and I know he misses me a lot too. He wanted to come see me during the winter break but he got an opportunity to take a class ,so that next term he can just take 2 classes and relax ( he will be graduating in the summer time), We agreed that school comes first so he is currently taking those classes. But the problem is that every single day we talk he tells me how much he misses me and needs me and is basically lonely, and I feel the same way so I said ,well then he could come see me during spring break if he cant make it during the winter break and he tells me that we need to leave it up to god if we look forward to it to much it wont come true.

The thing that kind of annoy me is that he keeps saying lets leave it up to god like god is going to buy his plane ticket for him and mail it to him.And he really spent a lot of money on me for my Christmas gift and he also purchased a Sidekick 2 so we will be able to send each other pictures and basically be able to communicate more. And he fells like he wants to pay all that money off before he can spend money to come see me (he is that type of person who uses his credit card and pays it off the next day or at least the within 2 weeks) So I tell him yes we can leave it up to god but come on just tell me that yes you will be coming on spring break just to make me feel a little better and he just says lets leave it to god I don't want you to get all happy that I am coming and what if I cant come or something happens so lets not get too happy about this and I want to pay off my credit card bill. And oh this guy is pissing me off I mean he talks about seeing me all the time and I am doing him and me a favor telling him he can come see me and he is saying lets leave it up to god, I even offered to pay for it but he doesn't like that idea.

So today we got into a big argument about this situation and him telling me lets leave it up to god once again ( it's not that I do not believe in god I really do ) so I got pissed and I said whatever I will never talk about this situation again I do not care it's done, and he started getting mad and said I am pissing him off he misses me more anyway and blab lablab and how it seems like I want to run this and he said I am not running anything and that he is going to run this I was like what the bleep your bull**** and I hung up. So I am just like what is going on all I want to do is see him and he wants the same but this leaving it up to god stuff and him telling me not to think about it too much because the things you look forward to usually do not come true. Now I hung up on him because what he said and we are not talking. I don't know but am I overreacting because I am going through certain things right now or am I basically right for what I did.
I mean I love him and want to call him but I feel that I don't even know what I feel right now I am sorry I just need some advice please I'm just really stressed out this long distance is driving me crazy both of us wow please give me some kind of advice.

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