[udelgirl]

So I met this guy recently and we've been talking back and forth and seeing each other a lot. We have a lot of similar musical interests and stuff but I don't know if he just tries calling me a lot and seeing me a lot b/c he's just interested in me as a friend (cos we have a whole heck of a lot in common) or is interested in a relationship. How do you tell w/ a guy?
Oh and how does a friendship blossom into a relationship/love?
Any opinions/thoughts would be cool

[FalconsGUY]

Hey
i dont have much but i have a little and i hope it will help. If he is calling you often and seeing you often that probley means he is intrested. Think about these are you guys ever together alone if not try to be once in a while see if there is any chemistry or sexual tension ( see if he is really quiet, or just what he does ) mabey he will end up making a move or try just you two doing something that you both like usually something will show up theres more of a chance of him doing something but if he is just buddy buddy all the time then he might just want to be friends..
Another think does he ever try flirting and if not you should try teasing him a little just to see what he does dont make it really clear what you are doing but just see how he reacts
But i do think he is intrested
GOOD Luck

[udelgirl]

Hi thanks for your advice!
I think there may be some sexual tension in those moments of silence, and he does try to get together with me a lot, but the thing is he is very conservative and innocent. I don't know if he just wants to keep it platonic. It's so hard to tell whether a conservative guy wants more... without me being pushy! I mean, how can a person tell? I don't want to scare him off by flirting, or give him the wrong impression or anything...

[chica]

I think he is probably interested.

As you have become better friends now, maybe you could give him a hug hello or goodbye, just to test the water a little? See what his reaction is. Have you had any physical contact at all? If you are comfortable with him, and feel like you want to be closer, just be natural with your instincts and show a little more affection.

If it is a real friendship, and nothing more, you wont ruin it by being more open.

good luck

[udelgirl]

Thanks chica
I think I might give him a hug or something because we leave to go back to our different colleges soon! Hopefully that won't scare him off.