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Old 22nd December 2004, 9:57 AM   #1
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A few pointers please

If you've known a girl for some time but you have only had a few serious conversations how do you go about seeing if she is interested in you? I know you can ask her out but do you go for just getting her number first or what?
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Old 22nd December 2004, 12:08 PM   #2
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you could tell her you would like to continue a conversation over dinner..... you will call her.
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Old 23rd December 2004, 2:25 PM   #3
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Should i ever ask her friends or sisters if she is talking to anybody or if she likes me. Thats the kind of thing people do in middle or high school right?
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Old 23rd December 2004, 4:07 PM   #4
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Should i ever ask her friends or sisters if she is talking to anybody or if she likes me. Thats the kind of thing people do in middle or high school right?
that is what stalkers do! never do that unless you and she share good friends! even then it will still get back to her that you had asked about her and her business!
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Old 23rd December 2004, 9:05 PM   #5
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yeah I don't want to do that. I would feel better asking her to her face so I can get a straight reaction. I would hate to have someone else tell me she doesn't like me.
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