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Old 21st December 2004, 2:25 AM   #1
mac007
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She is engaged

I am in school. this person tells me her favorite item. She emails me, and ask for feedback in school. we talk a lot. She expresses interest in me with her body language. But she is engaged. I do not want to pursue her while she has a ring on her finger. Other than that she is a great friend.

What do I do? of course I would like to be more than friends but I am not hoping she will break up with her fiance. Oh well, we talk about school subjects in our email mostly.
help. thanks
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Old 21st December 2004, 10:40 AM   #2
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Re: She is engaged

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What do I do?
It depends on whether or not you are willing to put your heart aside to keep the friendship. If you are interested in keeping her as a friend, then put aside your romantic feelings and continue to treat her just like you would any other friend.
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Old 21st December 2004, 10:42 AM   #3
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nature

it is human nature to want what you cannot have, and right now you cannot have her.

keep her as a friend and try to find someone else you like romantically
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Old 21st December 2004, 11:07 AM   #4
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she is being inappropriate, or you are reading her body language the wrong way.
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Old 21st December 2004, 9:49 PM   #5
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thanks again. I will put my feelings aside. and just be her friend.
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