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Old 19th December 2004, 9:36 PM   #1
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My friend is involved in a murder trial

Alright guys i have to ask you something but first ill tell ya something. My best friend is involved with a murder trial..her uncle is <name removed>, her dad just died, her brother and mom might go to jail, her aunt is in the hospital for breast cancer and her uncle died. I mean she has alot of things going on and i listen to every word she says and helps her as best i can but then i never tell her any of my problems because they seem so small compared to hers. Everytime we hang out its all about her and her family like i hardly remember a time where we talked about me or my family and one time i tried she like changed the subject. I Just feel so unimportant and unheard. Also she is so freakin gorgeous and eventhough shes my best friend and its soo fun hanging out with her, im also sooo upset and mad on the inside everytime i hang out iwth her because i have to walk next to her at school and stuff and she makes me look 10 thousand times worse than i already look. i wished i looked half as good as her.. any ideas?

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Old 19th December 2004, 9:48 PM   #2
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What is your question?

You need attention?

You don't want that kind of attention.
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Old 19th December 2004, 9:56 PM   #3
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as bad as her life is right now if you can't stand to be around her then distance yourself from her.

sounds like she is using u for emotional support or as an emotional crutch.
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