[kanga]

Is it OK to invite a guy friend to visit your hometown for a weekend? And what if that guy friend is maybe, possibly something more but not an actual bfriend? I want to invite him, but I fear that it's not appropriate given our uncertain situation.

[Stone]

Invite him and introduce him as a friend of yours

[alphamale]

Originally posted by kanga
I want to invite him, but I fear that it's not appropriate given our uncertain situation.

If you feel it is not appropriate then it is not appropriate.

[bicyclejunk]

It's 2004.


No biggie, Invite Him!!


My friend Sierra invites me to things all the time. I'll go stay with her
family her and her family etc.

It aint no thing. It could be a thing to your 'family' though. If it's
cool with you and you think you're fam won't give it a second thought,
INVITE HIM.

[kanga]

Yeah. It's probably not too big of a deal to ask. He's even made comments about getting a ride with me the next time I go home. Was he serious or just joking -- I do not know. I can certainly pose the question and laugh it off if he thinks its a bad idea.

The reason I question its appropriateness is because of our iffy status of being somewhere between friends and more. I don't want to make it appear that I'm being all, "Oh, come meet my family." That's clearly not my intent. But I do love the prospect of having his attention for an entire day or weekend.