In Search Of...Having a hard time forming friendships or finding companions, lovers, or associates? Is someone pursuing an unwelcome relationship with you? Talk about your experiences here.
As soon as I saw your name I knew this had to be entertaining.
So tell me Mike, why do you ask this question? I think that there is no such thing as an ugly female. There is someone for everyone's taste. What may be ugly to you can be beautiful to someone else.
Maybe you talk to them because it would be rude not to talk? It's okay not to be attracted to people. Just don't date people you aren't attracted to, or let them think you're attracted to them when you're not. etc.
How does what she looks like or doesn't look like effect YOUR self esteem unless you let it?
__________________
True bravery is arriving home drunk after a very late night out with the boys..... Then.....being assaulted by your wife with a broom, And still having the guts to ask: "Are you cleaning, or were you flying somewhere?"
i think that you have very good self esteem if you talk to 'ugly' females, if you had low self esteem, you wouldnt want to settle for 'less' than the best, because of being afraid of being judged.at least thats the way i feel
I think that if you actually think that talking to 'ugly females' somehow lessens you that you need to be a little less shallow about humans and life in general.
I talk to everybody. Being a friendly, outgoing person makes me feel good about myself, hence, good self esteem.
Doing a 60 yr old lady from the library didn't hurt your self esteem any did it?
Just keep talking. One of these "ugly" women may end up having the best heart and soul in the world. If anything you will make friends. Can't have too many of those!
__________________
"I'm a sinner, I'm a saint, I do not feel ashamed"
So what would and Angel say?
The Devil wants to know...
Just keep talking. One of these "ugly" women may end up having the best heart and soul in the world. If anything you will make friends. Can't have too many of those!
Its about attitude, if you don't like talking to ugly people, then that is minues five points off your attitude. If you judge, thats another minus 5 points. etc...
People are going to think what they are going to think, and there is nothing you can do about that.
I talk to all kinds of females, the ugly ones are the ones that have bad attitudes about life, no matter how hot or good looking they are, they can turn a guy off.
Re: Would it mean that have low -self-steem if i talk to ugly females?
Quote:
Originally posted by mike78207
Would it mean that have low -self-steem if i talk to ugly females? I mean talk to females that are not so pretty..
Well MIKE:
I don't know if this applies to you or not but studies show that men who pursue attractive women are more confident, assertive, successful and have higher self esteem (or percieved self esteem)
Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.
It's not a matter of self-esteem but more a matter of taste.
Linear Mode
