My friend has a boyfriend but shes been hanging out with me the last 2 days. Shes a shy girl and usually only talks to me during class but we get close to eachother and it doesnt bother us (she touches me mostly) We were watching a movies and asked her to move over and she moved only enough so I could fit so we were sitting incredibly close to eachother. (the couch is huge) I had a cover on me and she was playing with my dog and she told him to sit here and she touched my dick! ... IS IT THAT HARD TO KNOW THATS WHERE IT IS! She didnt even say anything about touching it till I said something (shouldnt have said anything..) and she said "Can guys only think with their dicks!" Of course, in a playful way though, she was laughing. Guys, would you be pissed if your girl was hanging out with another guy and being all touchy on them. Btw I saw her Bf and they didnt even give eachother a hug, and when theyre going to the movies she asks me to come along with her other friends. Geez I kinda feel sorry for him, never gets to go just the 2 of them.
Yes - it is some sneaky behavior. You don't go touching other people's genitals when you are seeing someone else no matter how much you are "just playing". You can just tell her that you don't appreciate how she's acting and to not cross that line again.
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Well she didnt just touch it, but was more like when you call a dog and you pat the spot you want them to sit.She might have been aiming for my leg but I dont see how you not know thats where it is even if I have a blanket over me.
Becoming even just emotionally involved to someone else to the point where it has to be concealed from your lover is a form of cheating. If you feel like it is wrong, and you know your lover will not approve, then you can bet it is wrong. If this is what your friend wants, she needs to proceed with caution.
this isnt really direct cheating as such, but we think that the girl in question is taking libertys because she knows that she can get away with it, because u and her are mates. and u said yourself that her and her boyfriend dont seem that close, maybe she is lacking attention from him and trying to get it elsewhere, i.e you!! and also because u say shes shy,but u 2 get along, she finds it easy to get this attention from u because u can relate to each other. but if u really dont want it to happen again your just going to have to tell her because by leaving it its going to affect your friendship.
Yea... her Bf is not my friend. Do you guys think that she just calls him her Bf cause theyre friends? Every Friday she asks me to go to the movies with them and her friends, so maybe hes just another friend. Lately I been saying no cause I dont wanna be with her and her "Bf" I just wanna hang out with her.
Yeah , i guess he could be. I think you need to ask yourself though first would you want to go out with her? Because if she says i don't know what is going on between her and her "boyfriend" then she might want to know if anything could happen with you and her.
Reading between the lines, I think the question that you are really asking is whether or not we think this girl is attracted to you, and whether or not you think you can start something with her. The answer to both questions is yes.
The question that I have for you is why do you want so much to become the new 'poor boyfriend'?
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