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Old 1st December 2004, 4:58 PM   #1
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taking me for granted?

hey,i need anyones help here,i feel like my boyfriend is starting to take me for granted, and no matter how much i try to look good,wear sexy things to make him see how much i can go and get someone else he just doesnt seem to realise,i have even told him he is acting a lot different but he seemed oblivious about it.
a few people fancy me but i aint interested i love my boyfriend but he is acting so cool with me i just want him to REALISE how special we are together i want him to get upset over me or something you know like get him scared realising what he has again like he used to....but how do i do this? what techniques or games should i play? or is there another way? PLEASE HELP! i miss the way things were
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Old 1st December 2004, 5:25 PM   #2
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Why do you want to play games? Sounds like you're already playing a few, and he possibly knows this and thats is why is isn't responding to what you want. We all get comfortable in realtionships sometimes and take our loved ones for granted. However, just because he doesn't always knowledge what you're doing, wearing etc, doesn't mean he doesn't care. Just be yourself.

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Old 1st December 2004, 5:50 PM   #3
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don't play games..talk to him honnestly
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Old 1st December 2004, 6:14 PM   #4
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I think you've got it all wrong. Do some reading on relationships. There are a lot of great books out there.

Don't play games, that's not right. Keep communication open with him and be honest.

I really can't give you any other advice.
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