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Old 10th November 2004, 8:01 PM   #1
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Question Have you cheated?

OK fess up. Who here in LS has cheated? If so, why?
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Old 10th November 2004, 8:39 PM   #2
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Well It was only 3 weeks into this new relationship and while at a friends birthday party I got a bit drunk and made out with her. The thing is my friends boyfriend was also at the party but he didn't know about it.

I confessed to my girlfriend when we broke up more than 2 years after it happened and she didn't seem to bothered about it and well me and my friend never mentioned it again, it was alcohol induced.
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Old 10th November 2004, 9:09 PM   #3
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Does this count? Its rather stupid

I cheated on my boyfriend when i was 8 years old. He was 8 as well and we where in the same class together and a gorgeous *guy* (he was only 8) come into the room with a cowboy hat on and the full works. He completely bowled me over and we kissed in front of my boyfriend. Only a peck on the cheek no tongues -QUOTE- Ah'ma good girl, ah am." --Audrey Hepburn. And we were boyfriend and girlfriend the whole day until the following day when he come in in normal clothes. So i dumped him and carried on seeing the first *guy*. Gosh i was i was that young again
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Old 10th November 2004, 9:26 PM   #4
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I've only cheated on a boyfriend once. We had been dating for 3 months and it was starting to become apparant that he wasn't going to be "the one". At the time, I was hanging out with this other guy who had become a really close friend of mine and actually started to have feelings for.

One night we were all drinking at a bar and as part of a dare (it's a long story) I kissed my guy friend. I was drunk at the time (still no excuse) but swore that would be the only time I would kiss him. I struggled for weeks after that but the guy and me were just so drawn to one another.

I finally broke up with my boyfriend (I should have done it sooner but hindsight is 20/20) and hooked up with my guy friend. We are still together today after almost 2 years and live together. He's definitely going to be the man I am going to marry too. It worked out for the best in the end even though I should have handled it differently but you live and learn.
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Old 11th November 2004, 8:47 AM   #5
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I didn't cheat on anyone, but someone cheated on their husband with me. About 3-4 years ago, I met this woman who I became friends with. She was married for 18 years, but was in an abusive relationship. She never cheated before. My intention was to not have sex with her, I just basically listened to her problems and helping her out. Well, one day it went too far. She didn't have any regrets over it, but 2 weeks later she came over to my house to tell me she was in love with me. The feeling wasn't mutual, and she didn't take it too well. But overall I believe it was a good thing, because it woke her up to the fact there are decent guys out there. She moved out and is with someone else who loves her alot. She just needed the courage.

I'm not proud at the fact I did this, but at least something good came out of it.
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Old 11th November 2004, 9:45 AM   #6
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Old 11th November 2004, 9:48 AM   #7
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I guess I'm a weirdo, I'm 30 and have never cheated on anyone ever. Never plan to.
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Old 11th November 2004, 9:54 AM   #8
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Old 11th November 2004, 10:34 AM   #9
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I'm 26 & have never cheated. Been cheated on though
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Old 11th November 2004, 11:33 AM   #10
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I'm a weirdo like 250r. 32 years old. Never have, never will.
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Old 11th November 2004, 11:36 AM   #11
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Old 11th November 2004, 11:54 AM   #12
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Old 11th November 2004, 12:07 PM   #13
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Tempted a few times??? Heck yeah. Ever followed through with it (or even given real thought to doing so)??? Hell no.
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Old 11th November 2004, 12:11 PM   #14
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Well ok hold on...do you mean cheat as in sleep with someone else...because people have many different definitions of what cheating is to them.

As for me anything with another person is cheating and it's wrong and I feel bad and yet I did it. A week ago..I'm going to hell.
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Old 11th November 2004, 12:12 PM   #15
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I've cheated I feel bad about it though.
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