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Old 5th November 2004, 12:00 AM   #1
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Whats wrong with what im doing???

How is a guy confident? I cant seem to get over my nervousness and shyness but i really want to be more confident.
i can talk to girls alright but sometimes the introduction is a real pain.
also, how is a person flirty? i can figure out how to do it. and how do u tell/show a person u r interested in them without scaring them away and how do u know that they are into u?
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Old 5th November 2004, 12:03 AM   #2
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i can't stand when a guy trys to be cool or flirty. just be yourself. **** everyone else. do some martial arts, that will help keep you humble and confident.
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Old 5th November 2004, 1:19 AM   #3
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Rent the following:

1. "The Tao of Steve"
2. "Swingers"

Watch each 100 times.
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Old 5th November 2004, 9:51 PM   #4
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Old 5th November 2004, 9:58 PM   #5
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Kelly speaks the truth.

Confidence = being comfortable with yourself, not being comfortable acting like someone you're not.

If you're cool, embrace it. If you're a dork like me, embrace it. Just have fun with yourself and don't be all caught up in this. It really doesn't matter who you are to be confident.
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