What do women prefer?

ps123 · 1st November 2004, 5:47 PM

So, sort of a general question for the women. Do women prefer guys who are more sensitive and able to talk about their feelings, or men who are "tougher" and dont show much emotion? I know this is a very vague question, I just thought it would be interesting to get some different opinions.
How about the nice guy vs. the bad boy? Which one there?

tiki · 1st November 2004, 5:50 PM

I've had one of everything in the book. The one I fell in love with is more sensitive than I am.

He's a drama queen (gotta love him), he loves attention and affection. He talks for hours. He's a softy. He's a "good guy". He's confident enough to show his emotions and confident with his sexuality. I choose him.

Scarlett_girl · 1st November 2004, 6:17 PM

someone who can talk openly about his feelings is tops in my book! and so is th guy who is NOT jealous..

cateinaus · 1st November 2004, 7:39 PM

The sensitive guy for sure but he also must be practical and level headed.

Are there any out there

Naive · 1st November 2004, 7:42 PM

Sensitive guy, all the way.

Mr Spock · 1st November 2004, 7:53 PM

Ha!! I would prefer a tough exterior, someone who keeps his emotions closely guarded and only lets those he truly trusts see them. I don't want a man weeping on me after he ejaculates.

1st November 2004, 7:58 PM

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I don't want a man weeping on me after he ejaculates.

Damn! So now you tell me, Spock!

Scarlett_girl · 1st November 2004, 8:02 PM

a guy who cries after sex is scary! no ..a sensitive soul who is intellectual and open minded and confident..i am a sucker for men who are slightly cocky and quirky..usually philosophy or history students! like me!

startingover1028 · 1st November 2004, 8:04 PM

For myself, I prefer a mixture.
One of the things that separates men from women is their ability to "hold it all in". There's something to be said about a "smoldering", sexy guy who obviously has a lot on his mind. At the same time, a man who can't express himself when he needs to or should, is a big turn -off.

DJ_Dork · 1st November 2004, 9:37 PM

Believe 50% of what the women say in here.. except for those women who say they want a strong guy on the outside, sensitive guy on the inside. Which is basically the guy is her protector in public/wild but very passionate and nice in private (like in bed.)