ok..i am just wondering..if a guy meets two girls, one 5'6 weighs 110,(not very curvy expect for boobs) dyed blond hair, blue eyes..average face, wears a padded bra and very tight low cut jeans and tops..the other is 5'7 weighs 140(pear/hourglass shape) has chocolate brown long curly hair(like Shakira style) dresses casually,doesnt flaunt her body too much but still wears low cut shirts and has a very pretty face
which would a guy prefer?? the one who dresses super sexy all the time and flaunts everything but is not as pretty? or the really pretty one who is more casual sexy and less in your face sexy??
hehehe.."the one who'd put out" yeah..i guess that does sum it up!! the question was more hypothetical than anything else..i don't compare mysefl to other girls...i just want to know form a guy's point of view- what would you want?
As Spock said, a lot of guys like the "flash". They want their buddies to see them with the "hot girl" which usually involves platinum hair, a fake tan, a disproportionately large rack, or all of the above. The women serve as a status symbol for the men. Who wants to be a trophy anyway?
Funny how only girls are responding to this thread.
Okay, from a guy, your question is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too vague to answer accurately. First of all, if we assume that we're sticking for superficiality for the sake of simplicity, then even those physical descriptions don't contain enough information to give a good answer. It's not just what a girl's measurements are that make her attractive, but also if she knows how to dress, what her style is, and if she carries herself well. A girl with confidence is automatically going to go up a notch or two on the attractiveness scale.
Secondly, not all guys look only at the surface. If I had to choose between a 6 or an 8, but I knew the 6 was completely loyal and honest, and the 8 was just a wh0re, then I'd take the 6 in a second. The same goes for if one is clearly nicer or more fun to be around. No matter how hot the girl is, if she's a nag or a b!tch, she's eventually going to get the boot.
I'm guessing from this post that you're concerned that some guy isn't going to think you're as hot as some other girl and choose her over you. If he picks her over you just for her t!ts, he isn't worth your time anyway. If you're a cool girl, and a genuinely good person, you're ultimately going to win out over girls who you are worried might be hotter than you.
If you've got a big ass, and your guy in question finds big asses a turn off, then he's going to go for the thin big boobed one. Personal preference. Simple as that.
Its just a matter of personal preference. Ive dated both the flashy women who flaunt it, and the other women who are more plain. Personally, Ive had better luck with the more average ones. The ones who flaunt it usually are looking for lots of male attention which is a HUGE red flag in my book. When I was out with her, it was an ego booster to see all these guys checking her out, until I realized, she wasnt dressing in this sexy way for me. It was for any guy who would pay attention to her.
But, be careful that you don't confuse your label of "attention whore" with someone who's just extremely confident of themselves. If you've got it, flaunt it because YOU like it. No one can look down on you for that. You're not gaining anything by being afraid to dress, or act a certain way.
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what do guys prefer?!?!?!?!?!?!?
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