That is awful. It is hard to know what to do with a young person who is "acting out"...BUT~
as hard as it would be to do, you could call the cops and have her arrested. This is not something you should tolerate. She needs to learn that this is not acceptable. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way...
If you don't mind me asking, what was her reason for doing that?? Do you both live with your parents? Did this happen at your parent's house? What do they think about how to handle her? Have your parents ever tried to get her into counseling?
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well i am a little person and ive never been ina fight plus i just never thought about digging my nails into her flesh... i tried to fight back.. i pulled her hair to get her off me and stuff like that but her nails were in my face.
she is 16 and were both girls... i have always been the "good girl" so shes been acting up since she was abotu 12... my parents have had her in counseling.. they tried a lot of things. they were there when it happened.. they were trying to get her off me the whole time. shes been expelled 3 times for beating someone up.. she cannot handle authority and my parents and i have been talking about what we need to do next. we have called the police on her before.... what do you do with a kid thats so jelous shes just bad.
she's 16 and im 20 and she's such a b****... if she doesnt get her way she flips out and gets violent... she's on medication for that.. she was on zoloft, and 2 other prescriptions i dont know the name of... we call them her ''happy'' pills b/c she needs them to be happy lol... andwut sucks is if i dont hang out with her or take her somewhere she will go and rat on me to my parents about something stupid... i cant even tell her anything anymore in fear of her ratting me out...and my mom said next time she says something that i do tahts bad then im out of the house... she got suspended for fights in school as well b/c ofher anger problem... she's seen therapists and doctors and nothing helps... they said she has a chemical imbalance...and it sounds like ur sis has that too.. we're in the sameboat... my sis is a beast but i wont let her beat me up! if she goes after me i will knock her down...she came after me with a knife one time!!! how pshycho is that... my dad ran after her and beat the crap out of her...she called the cops...and they blamed my dad!! typical right... well since all this stuff has happend a while ago she's calmed down a bit b/c she's SLOWLY maturing which is a + she made new friends so that lets me off the hook of having to chill with her when shes bored... so dont feel bad...just try to stay away from her as much as possible and ignoreher... if she asks wuts wrong say u dont wanna talk to a pshyco..she'll get the hint!
The only way to stop her from doing it is to Hit Her Back!
I mean.. that's all I did to my brother and he learned not to be messing with me like that. Once she learns that you'll not going to put up with it.. and that you'll fight back.. she'll leave you alone.. if it persists.. then just get your parents to take action.
Tell your parents maybe enrolling her in some anger management classes. She needs to learn another way to channel her anger instead of hitting. Buy her a punching bag for christmas. At least it would be the bag and not a person.
well things are calm now... parents prefered not to take a side and im suposed to act like nothing is wrong... i havent talked to her in a while... were just on non-speaking terms now... im not home much.... and thats realy it... im almost 23 i cant fight this forever i need to move on so im trying... i appreciate everyones support... and just so you all know i am a wuss im little and weak! ive never been in a fight before in my life! so i tried to fight back but it didnt really work well...
Call the police next time. It's domestic violence. Your parents should've done so instead of letting your face get banged all to hell. Why didn't someone intercept? Don't hit her back, c'mon people. Restrain her if you're able, but violence doesn't solve violence in this case. Your home shouldn't be a war zone. If your sister is a violent person that can't be controlled there are detention places for juveniles like her. It's hard to report someone you want to love, but you could've been seriously injured and if you really weren't fighting back much she sounds like she has serious anger problems. Your parents should not permit her to endanger you.
I went through the same thing with a sibling.. she ended up sent to a "boarding school" for bad girls when she was almost 17. They tried everything, including calling the police several times because of her violence, and they were at the end of their rope. If your parents aren't going to step up, just keep your distance as much as possible and try not to get in the middle.
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Maybe you should consider some self defense classes for yourself - martial arts, perhaps? Next time she comes charging at you with raised fists all you'd have to do is basically redirect the momentum so that she lands on her ass, which I have heard that sort of thing teaches you very well.
Of course if she's coming after you with a weapon a cell phone with 911 on one-touch speed dial is about the best you can do there.
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im little and weak! ive never been in a fight before in my life! so i tried to fight back but it didnt really work well...
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