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Old 26th October 2004, 12:49 PM   #1
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Will A Parking Space End A Very Good Relationship???

I have been dating this woman for over a year now. I have committed myself to her and love her very much. She tells me that she loves me too. She owns a condo with two parking spaces per condo. Before I met her she allowed her next door neighbor's son to use one of her extra spaces. Her neighbors have three cars in a condo complex that only allows two cars. When I visit, I have to park in a visitor's space away from her condo. My car has already been damaged there, I can't see the car and my remote starter doesn't work when I park in the visitor's parking space. I have told her that I feel as though I don't rate very high with her, since I think that she should tell the neighbor's son that she has a significant other in her life and would like to have her parking space back so that I can use it whenever I want to. I even told her that I would visit her much more often if I had a place to park. I don't think that I'm the visitor anymore. If the roles were reversed, I would have told the neighbor's kid a long time ago, to find a space for himself. I don't make her park down the street when she visits me. This may sound silly, but I still don't think that I rate enough with her since she thinks it's OK for me to park down the street and not at her condo. I would do anything for her and it doesn't look as though she cares enough about me. What do you people think out there???
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Old 26th October 2004, 12:56 PM   #2
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Park there anyway. Then both parties should get the hint.
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Old 26th October 2004, 2:06 PM   #3
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Park there anyway. Then both parties should get the hint.
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Old 28th October 2004, 12:29 AM   #4
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I agree! You sound like a nice, dedicated, loving guy. I would totally get that space for you. You should be VIP in her life, not parking in BFE!!

I would calmly talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. It may seem little, but these things really make you feel valued, or not.

Let us know what happens! Confused28
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