[pedens001]

Ok so there's this girl that I've been talkin to in one of my classes that meets every other day..and I am starting to think that maybe she likes me...I like her now..we talk to each other when in the class and afterwards I walk with her to her car and she's always really nice and smiling and all..Like the other day I was reading my textbook when she came in and her water bottle happened to hit my book and I looked up and she was smiling asking me if I was ready for the test that day. Today when I saw her she smiled and waved at me when coming in the room..plus I think I did a chivalrous thing..if you ask me lol..it was raining after class and I had my umbrella and she didn't have one so I offered to walk her to her car and she let and said thank you so much and that she'd see me on thurs..

So what do you guys think?..I'm thinkin of maybe askin her if she wants to meet somewhere and study before a big test like at a bookstore or something?..Any thoughts I'll appreciate them..

[csgurl4ever]

i say go for it! if she makes an effort to talk to you everyday and you walking her out to her car she's definitely interested. if that goes well maybe ask her if she wants to go get something to drink sometime, or go out for lunch. it should work.

[tbbearcat5]

Hey, I honestly never thought I would be back here again, but here I am...

My situation is very similar to that one you mention...except for the whole walking out and the water bottle incident. But anyways, this girl is in a class with me and we have been talking and emailing off and on. A few weeks after meeting her, I decided to ask her for lunch over an email (since she didn't have a phone # available, and I didn't want to stop by her room). I didn't think asking for her number was the right thing to do yet, either. She accepted, and seemed delighted that I asked her. She told me to stop by her room, e-mail, whatever way possible to set up a time, and so, with no phone #, and since I didn't want to email her, I decided to stop by her room.

Apparently, she was asleep when I stopped by..and I get an email from her later that night, saying she didn't know where I was at in this, if I wanted a relationship or friendship, which threw me for a loop. I had told myself adamantly I wasn't going to rush things, and take things slow. I sent her an email back saying I was sorry about everything, but I truly wanted a friendship with her. Well I tell my roommate about this situation, and without me knowing, goes over to her room and tells her (since I never got a reply from her) that I am really looking for just a friendship. She had told him that she didn't know what to say in response to my email. I was surprised he did that, but not really upset.

He then informed me that she asked about what kind of person I was and about my hometown...which intrigued me. She told him she felt really, really bad about the misunderstanding (she thought that I thought she was a bitch, and she isn't of course) and DID want to get to know me, which made me happy. The funny thing is, he promised her not to tell me about all this, but he told me anyways. She does not know that I know, however.

I truly do want a friendship, and if that's all it ends up being I can and will accept that, but I am finding myself falling for her slowly, which sucks because I don't want to too fast, and set myself up for a big letdown. I feel I have handled this pretty well at the very least, keeping my distance, and only talking to her during class. I have seen signs she may like me in that way, but I don't know for sure. Thanks

Feel free to ask any ?'s