I have always had a problem with our marriage, in that I do not fully trust my wife.

There are certain times, yes, when I do and in fact this is probably most of the times. However, recently, her behaviour is getting more and more suspect.

She recently bumped into an old male friend at a family event, and never told this to me until a week later. She has also got his cell phone number from him, and has called him numerous times, as well ... not telling me. I discovered yesterday, that she had called him when I went out for 10 mins - then on a drive somewhere I started asking some roundabout questions, his name eventually came up and then I got 'what is with all the questions etc. etc.'

I don't think my wife would cheat on me, and maybe it is just her catching up with an old friend - but why call him when I am not around and why keep it a secret?

Any suggestions/comments?

[Confissledone]

I dont know dude, all sounds pretty fishy to me.... I'd be pissed off if something like this happened behind my back which it kind of has happened. In your case I would give her more attention and try to resolve things before she decides to head to her old friends house. Make her feel good about herself and hell take her somewhere romantic, might fix your marriage by a little. Also if you're ok with her talking to him, tell her about it, let her know you wont get mad....just no fishy sh*t