[fmermaid]

Met my ex 9 years ago. Divorced 4 years ago. Many bad times, some good memories which I treasure. He is a nice person but childish IMO. I tried really hard to make it work, I think. Am in therapy. He never came along for counselling.

Just yesterday he said it's over and although he loves me "in many ways", he needs to see changes. This line of his has kept me hooked for ages now. I guess I only decided to accept it yesterday.

Anyway, am finding it hard to move on even now. Any suggestions?

[findinmyway]

I don't understand. You're divorced and back together? Now he says it's over again? Who left the first time?

[fmermaid]

Well, it's like this. Got legally divorced but emotionally we were very much together for a long time after. I must sound like some kind of nut but I really loved this man. It seemed like he did too or maybe I just kept reading into things.