[blackendangel13]

Hi all. Having a sort of dilema. Here is my situation in a nutshell (for more in depth see "Whats his deal"). My ex of 1.5 years and I have been broken up for a little over two months with no contact for the past month. We were still seeing each other, or he was using me for sex, whichever it really was for the first month of the break-up. Anyway. During the past month I decided to move on and stop hurting myself by chasing after someone who obviously didn't want to be with me anymore. I started seeing a great guy who is post break-up too and we have been taking things really slow, with the exception of one drunk night. Well last night the guy called and said he was coming over after he went to the bar with his friends. I was excited so I cleaned my house and got ready and ended up falling asleep on the couch waiting for his phone call.

Well I woke up about 1:30 from a horrible nightmare and still no guy. I didn't sleep for the rest of the night and he never called or came over. My ex used to do this to me all the time and it used to really hurt me. The new guy and I have been talking a lot lately about getting together officially and this incident really really disappointed me. I know he was probably drunk and just forgot, but I came into work with an email from him about how it was 7am and he was wasted. Am I reading too much into this? I just dont want to start down the same path again. Help!