I thought it would be kind of neat to hear where/when/how people have dumped or dumped someone. You always hear of the stories of the day before the wedding or on someones birthday. Anyone not been told, the person just disappeared? Anyone get dumped in a supermarket or on the bus? I want to hear all of your stories.
Being the tread starter I guess I will share my dumpee/dumper story.
Dumper: In person right before a movie, we were already in the theatre and she cried through the whole movie.
Dumpee: I got dumped over the phone... well she was so generous enough to rub "I want to be friends still" in my face.
A friend of mine got dumped over the phone the day before they moved into and an apartment together.
First he said that he needed some time alone (original, no?) and that he would call in a week. He didn't call when he had said he would (surprise, surprise). In fact, he never called at all--he sent an e-mail. He suggested that we get together to talk again--if I wanted to. And then, when I responded by suggesting some times when we could meet, I never heard back from him.
I hate to play the "I-can-top-that" game, but in this case, I think I have a lot of people beat.
Dumped at the same place where he first said 'I love You'
He rang me at work telling me we need to 'talk'. I said, 'Oh sh*t, you're going to break it off with me aren't you?". He didn't reply but asked for me to meet him at the lake after work. We met at the lake and he proceeded to dump me (and blame me, for God knows what) in the place where he first told me he loved me.
My worst experience being dumped was getting a "top ten things I hate about you" sent to me via e-mail. Of course, the guy was trying to make me hate him so that I'd get over him more quickly, but it still sucked! Most of the things he said weren't even true, or were fights I thought we had worked out!
The first time i was dumped I still remember it...lol
It was 3rd grade....and he gave me a pencil so everyone said he was my bf..and I was sooooo happy..and during story time he sat next to me and wrote my name on his sneakers and then two days later i saw him give ERIKA a pencil...Then during story time he sat next to her on the carpet...lol
I was so upset I cried in the bathroom...
Till this day I have been the one to dump..either because I was lied to, cheated on, or it just wasn't working out.
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Originally posted by Nurmal
My worst experience being dumped was getting a "top ten things I hate about you" sent to me via e-mail. Of course, the guy was trying to make me hate him so that I'd get over him more quickly, but it still sucked! Most of the things he said weren't even true, or were fights I thought we had worked out!
Did you send him a letter, "TOP 10 THINGS I LIKE ABOUT YOU" in return?
1. Hmm....nothing.
2. That you're my ex.
3. Hmm...nothing (again!)
4. That you're my ex.
5. That your iddy, biddy, widdy doodle can fold in half to equal 1cm in length (not many men can fold it in HALF to equal 1cm!!).
6. Hmm....nothing (again? c'mon!)
7. That you're my ex.
8. The effort you put into trying to use that iddy, biddy, widdy thing (commendable to say the least...er...yeah).
9. That you're my ex.
10. Hmm...nothing - again! Who would have thought, eh?
I am still frigging waiting to get dumped!! My b/f just took off 5 days ago and I haven't heard from him... he neglected to take his crap out of my house!!
I once dumped a man in the middle of sex... It was so mean but he bragged about how wonderful he was and about 15 minutes in to it I just said STOP you are doing absolutely nothing for me, there is no reason to continue this..
The last guy I was dating that I was crazy about just dissapeared into thin air. His roomate said last she heard he moved out of state but he's in a band and they are going to be playing some shows again very soon in town so I don't know. That would suck if he put her up to saying that. Regardless, he doesn't even have a cell phone that is working now because he never paid his bill. (Don't you just love musicians) even though i'm still upset about it i'm probably better off.
Isn't that the worst when they just disappear? No phone call, no letter, no e-mail..?
I dated this one guy and everything was going great..then he just poof up and houdinied on me...
I called his numbers they were all disconnected? I was like wtf? Then I run into him years later and we become friends I never asked about when he disappeared I didn't care anymore..we began dating again and he did it again!!!!
I've never heard from him again...shame too he was cool...I wonder what happened to him?
I am going thru this "disapearing spouse" thing right now and I can say it is the worst thing anybody could ever do.. I would be so happy to just get a phone call and saying I am dumping you than sit here and wait and worry... I guess some people are just cowards!!
What's funny about my situation is that I thought he did it once before with me but he ended up calling me and he apologized for the lack of time between communication and I gave him the benefit of the doubt and I actually joked with him and said " I thought you were one of those types of guys that just dissapears." He then told me "Oh, I would never do that babe!" WHATEVER!!!
I wonder what he'll do if I do ever run into him. I seriously doubt I am going to go to any of his shows just because I have too much pride.
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