I am having difficulties with my marriage, when is it time to call it quits??? HELP!!!!

[Matilda]

I think that answer will be different for different people in different situations. Can you tell us more about your particular situation?

[twistedtexan]

Read Love Busters and then decide if you and your spouse are willing to commit to the principles in the book. Some of it is free at this site. <URL removed>

educate yourself on what it takes to make a relationship work.

[findinmyway]

Yes, it's hard to say without hearing the whole story.

The first piece of advice I was given on LS (after telling my entire story) was....don't leave until you can truly say you would rather spend the rest of your life alone than to remain in your marriage. That is a good indicator on many counts: you shouldn't leave because of another person, you'll have to be happy with yourself--on your own--or no relationship will work, and as a divorcee--ending up alone is a good possibility as second marriages are more prone to fail than first.