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Old 19th September 2004, 1:57 AM   #1
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should i beat him up

a freind of mine, i knew him for 3 years. he told the girl im after, that im a nerd and all i do is play games. he dosnt understand. i used to like games, till i realized that i just played em to escape reality cuz my friends abandoned for "better" "cooler" friend so i had nuthin else to do. now he come up tp me at school in front of everyone and says "whers ur gameboy"..... wheres ur gameboy.... in front of the girl.... i dont have a gameboy, and i dont like video games!! i want people! i wanted to punch him. he ruined my chances for a girl ive liked , like, forever. now the girl is sayin im lame and is avoiding me, even is startin to call me a creep stalker. sorry, adults here.. im just ranting.. ranting away about issues i have cuz no one listens other than nosy people on the internet who lend a helping ear.
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Old 19th September 2004, 1:59 AM   #2
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Do you think you could take him?
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Old 19th September 2004, 2:16 AM   #3
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no one listens other than nosy people on the internet who lend a helping ear.
How nice

Anyway, if she doesn't like you just because she thinks you like to play games, then she's not a very nice person. She doesn't even know you and she's already blown you off. Maybe if you avoid her for awhile she'll stop thinking of you as a "creep stalker" and maybe consider giving you a chance.

I don't advise fighting with the other guy. I don't think violence solves anything, and anyway, if it ended up that the boy beat you up, you'd look even worse in front of the girl you like.
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Old 19th September 2004, 2:19 AM   #4
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ive been doin martial arts for 5 years and i was the top of my classes, i almost beat my instructor once. i think i can take a abercrombie pretty boy.
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Old 19th September 2004, 2:23 AM   #5
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Maybe you should try to talk to him about it before you go and beat him up. Why is it so terrible to have a Gameboy? Are videogames all of a sudden bad? I don't see anything wrong or "geeky" about it unless that's all you ever do. I don't think you should let it bother you.
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Old 19th September 2004, 2:48 AM   #6
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well havin a gameboy isnt so bad. but, how would u feel if the person that ruined ur chances wit the girl u adore came up to u and asked u "whers ur gameboy buddy" as if ur nothing and ur being pityd.

and him askin that makes me feel as if im geeky and all i do is play games. how can it not bother me. now she wont even look at me. and when i see her , she rolls her eyes and walks away. now everyone thinks im nerdy.

just... il make my decision off of ur repsonses to the folowing

what would u think of me if i did kick some but, would u see me as a undecent bad person, or a man in destress defending his last strand of dignity, or something else.
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Old 19th September 2004, 2:53 AM   #7
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I don't think violence solves anything. I think you'd seem like much more of a man if you just shrugged it off and got on with your life. If the girl doesn't like you just because of something someone says then she's a pretty shallow person. Why would you want to be with someone like that?
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Old 19th September 2004, 3:08 AM   #8
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i dont think she is shallow. usualy, if some1 says something about some1, they will believe it. thats how it is these days. and they are good friends, so she most likely will believe anything he says.

and, she wouldnt like me believing that cuz she dosnt want to play games all day, and so dont i, but now she thinks i do, and believes it.

are u sayin like, shes shallow for believeing that im a nerd and not good enough for her?
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Old 19th September 2004, 3:16 AM   #9
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oh she knows me, knew me for 3 years, but dosnt know what i like to do.
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Old 19th September 2004, 5:36 AM   #10
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Nevermind, I thought you were taking this a different direction.

No, don't fight him, and forget about the girl entirely. He's making you look stupid with words, and I think you could easily outwit him.

I don't know how old you are--but is screwing somebody's mom still an assault rifle in the battle of wits? Perhaps you could say you left your gameboy at his mom's house.
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Old 19th September 2004, 8:41 PM   #11
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should i sabotage him back?
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Old 19th September 2004, 10:24 PM   #12
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Old 20th September 2004, 6:07 PM   #13
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maybe, stick a dildo in his car, so when his girlfriend sees it, shell think hes gay or something muahahahhahaha
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Old 20th September 2004, 6:13 PM   #14
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Beating people up is not nice.

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maybe, stick a dildo in his car, so when his girlfriend sees it, shell think hes gay or something muahahahhahaha
^ However, doing this like this is.


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Old 20th September 2004, 6:14 PM   #15
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He's making you look stupid with words, and I think you could easily outwit him.
Are we 100% sure of this? Could you provide evidence?!
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