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Old 15th September 2004, 7:11 PM   #1
skyclimber
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Unhappy Teach me out how to approach a girl in cafe

I am a 25 years old boy. However, I have never dated a girl before. I think it is not normal and my mom start to worry about me. So, I decided to start looking for a girl friend. And here is where I find it extremely hard.

In my class, there are only guys and hence it is hard for me to get to know any girl. The only way left is to approach the girls in cafe in school. However, they dont know me. So, how should I break the ice there?

Please help me out!
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Old 15th September 2004, 7:50 PM   #2
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To start a conversation....

You: "Excuse me..."

She: "??"

You: "I think you dropped something back there...."

She: Usually will swing back the way she came, then not seeing anything she dropped will look back to you...

You: "I think you dropped your smile...."

She: 99% of the time will smile...

You (Wearing a big grin): "Ah! I see you found it! You should wear it more often, it looks good on you!"


It is kinda cheesy, but even so, it is cute, complimentary, and she will have a warm fuzzy feeling about you. Now just be yourself and talk to her with confidence!

Good Luck!
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Old 15th September 2004, 9:57 PM   #3
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lol, thats cute dazed.
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Old 16th September 2004, 12:16 AM   #4
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This is what I am talking about. I think this ice breaking skill is amazing. I definitely am going to try it tomorrow ( if I am brave enough, since that I am a shy boy). Wish me luck!
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Old 18th September 2004, 7:18 AM   #5
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i dunno if i would recommend pre plained cheesy openings.....they can sound fake if they are pre rehearsed and such.
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