[Lovebird]

I met a guy just over a week ago and he called and asked me out to lunch. It was a good lunch, we talked and left the restaurant holding hands. We went back to his place and watched some TV and kissed a little. Then he took me home.

He came to a dance lesson Thursday he knew I was taking and danced with me afterward. He told me he had his kids for the weekend but would call me afterward. Friday night before the weekend he called and said he didn't have to pick them up until 10 and did I want some company for a little while. I said ok and we spent about 1-1/2 hours talking and kissing/hugging, nothing heavy. I said goodnight and he again said he would call me after the weekend.

As he takes the dance class after mine, I saw him last night (monday) and since his class was to start shortly after mine ended, we just smiled at each other but did not talk. It is now Tuesday night and he has not called. I know it is a little silly of me, but I am not experienced at dating, as I am in my 50's and just starting to date after being divorced a couple of years. Should I wait and hope he calls, or e-mail him to say how much I enjoyed my dance class and hope he enjoyed his or something to show I am still interested? I always thought that if a man was interested, he would call and he seemed interested.

What's a woman to do? I keep busy but it is still on my mind

[Barby]

I saw call him, if it goes well maybe you can suggest seeing him again...if it doesn't and he doesn't seem interested very much then at least you'll get a better idea of where you stand with him. Maybe he figures since he called you now it's your turn maybe he's afraid he'll pressure you too much if he calls you again, he could be thinking if you're interested you would call him.