Im alittle confused right now, i guess i should start at the top eh hehe.
for the last couple weeks i've been kinda down and out,
a whole bunch of bad news and bad things seemed to come
all at once and well, im sure we all know how everything coming
at once can make you feel emotionally and worst off its mainly
with my mom,but anyway, i work with my boyfriend of one year
(we havent been working 2gether that long) and for the last week
i was really down,i'd be tired because i was stressed and
working and i wasnt very talkative seeing as my head was elsewhere
but i would still do my best to make conversation with him.
he could tell i wasnt my normal self and instead of asking me what was wrong or
striking a conversation himself he just didn't talk to me hardly at all.
recently, he's really be uhm...lacking ,as a boyfriend, we never have anytime alone except at like 230am when all his friends have left, and that changed last weekend
when two of them showed up a 2am and we were right in the middle(if u know
what i mean) and he still went to greet them instead of acting like maybe we were
busy,cuz we were,and note:these guys had already been there that night. and then today he was really incredibly rude to me, and finally i told him he didnt need
to help me(with work) anymore i would rather do it myself he got all mad
and started telling me how i dont make suggestions and dont do anything
and im always depressed, when i asked him how im always depressed he answered "for like the last two weeks" and i said oh so now im not allowed to be sad, its not like im taking it out on you.
then he said he was sick of it and it was over(which in the end was only said to hurt and wasnt true). after all was pretty much ok enough argueing, i thought about the time when he worked nights every night of the week except sat and sun. for 6 months, and we never talked he barely ever called me and was always so tired we didnt do anything but sit around, and he was moody 24/7. yet i didnt break up with him, and he can't even try and be supportive when im having trouble in my life and its stressing me out? is he just an inconsiderate person? or am i reading into this to much?
oh, one more thing that really got me, we are big vid addicts and we played this one game and i was trying to fight a boss and i didnt know waht to do and so i said fine u beat it then and he did(but he got a really lucky shot killed em all) and when i said ah sweet now we can get through the door he said see that wasnt hard, and i said it was for me and hes like well you werent doing anything u were jsut running around getting knocked down. i said i tried and i didnt get a lucky shot like you did and hes like oh if only i had a recorder so u could watch it again.........is that pathetic? cause i thought it was, over a videogame
Sorry its so long.....thansk !
Basically a lot of your fighting I would think comes from being around each other so much. You work together. I think relationships rarely work out when the two people work together. I've been there three times already. I would suggest trying to get a different job and maybe do other things than play video games all day (if that's what you really do). Then things will be different, believe me. You guys seem to be around each other so much and are probably sick of it.
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