what should I tell her if she calls, now that I have decided to have no contact?
Hi again ya'll. I have a new challenge. My girl dumped me and that story is in the thread titled " I want her back but" Now today I've decided not to call or email her. Maybe she won't call but if she does I don't want to tell her I was trying for closure or I was wanting to give you some time to think what it's really like not having me etc. Can someone give me a suggestion that makes it sound like I was still hoping to get back together but was waiting on her to make contact. Any suggestions?
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IF she calls you then why do you need to tell her anything or give her any reason why you haven't called her?
I read your other post, and she is the one who decided to end things between the two of you, so it shouldn't be a mystery to her why you're not calling her.
If by some remote chance she asks you why you haven't called her simply tell her you were respecting her wishes.
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