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Old 8th September 2004, 9:33 AM   #1
SoReady
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Red face Nervous About 1st Date-Need Tips!

I am so nervous because I really really like this guy! He is fine as hell and very nice and intelligent!

[font=times new roman][color=indigo]Now listen, I met this really great guy last Saturday at a club. I gave him my number and told him to call me on Monday (cuz that's my day off) and he did. Even before Monday, he texted messaged me a couple times saying these really sweet things.

So we talk Monday and I was like "so what are you doing Friday cuz maybe we can hang out or something?" He was like "nothing at all" and "for sure we can hang out Friday I'd really like that."

So we've been talking everyday since Monday and the closer it gets to Friday the more nervous I get. HELP!!! I even asked him yesterday what he wants to do Friday and he was like "whatever. As long as I get to see you. I mean, we can go see a movie, go to a club, go out to drink... whatever."

What should I say I wanna do? Honestly, it doesn't matter to me either. So what should I say I wanna do? I don't want him to have to spend a lot of money because he's a student. I mean he works, but he has rent to pay too.[/color][/font]

[color=violet]Help me out people![/color]
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Old 8th September 2004, 10:36 AM   #2
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You can never beat an early movie, play, concert or show followed by drinks, coffee, icecream or dinner, cause then you'll have something to talk about after.

As far as the monety thing goes, pick somewhere that's close by and one of you can pay for the movie and the other can pay for the drinks, food, or icecream.

The activity-sit down and chat combo ais great cause you have a chance to get comfortable around each other before you get to the more intense face to face time.

Cheers!

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