[catgirl]

hi,need some advice
meet this guy about 5 weeks ago we have been seeing each other 2-4 times a week we really like each other,he always calls me i never call him,we get along great and enjoy each others company,all week he called or Im me everyday to chat and on thursday when we were saying goodnight he said he would call through out the day Friday now its sunday and not a word from him.i find this werid as he was doing all the calling and nothing different had happened the last time we talked.i couldnt stand it any longer so i dropped him an email then called sunday afternoon no answer i find this strange,he did say he was only going to date me but if i met someone i wanted to date it was ok for me to do so..im a little confussed about it all now.

[FOX]

I think he just got sick of initiating all the contact. If you are into the relationship show it by calling him. To him it probably seems like you are trying to dissolve the relationship.

[9Lives]

Girl...who knows!!! Guys will fall off for many reason. He will call you back. Tell him how you feel when he does and keep your options open. This could mean he is not going to maintain a steady relationship with you. Dont go off on him or anything because he will think you are crazy. But check him and and let us all decide if he is playing games.

[catgirl]

hi guys,
well he finally called monday and we had a long talk said my peice told him he how i felt...he did most of the talking trying to make things all right again.he just needed some time.....we are now only dating each other!!)by sunday he was afraid to call and figured it would be a cold day in hell before i talked or went out with him again...its the 1st time he didnt call when he said he would,he told me he really missed me on the weekend..he said"IT FELT TREMENDOUSLY STRANGE not falling asleep beside you Saturday night"then
You know Cat I am not trying to be all serious with you. I would be lying if I said I was not attracted to you on many different levels..so we talked for a couple of hours in person..i expressed how i felt and still said i didnt want to get to serious just yet wanted to see what happens..we have only been seeing each other for 5-6 weeks now..but i do like him alot and he me so i guess will see what happens next...and he plans on making it up to me too..so will see,ill keep you guys posted on what happens...thanks for the advice i read alot of the posts here and used a few of the lines on him,,worked like a charm...this site ROCS!!!!!!!