[swright2farmer]

I have never used this before and pray that it helps me.

My husband and I have been married for four years. Prior to our marriage he had a bachelor party and I had indicated to him that I was strictly against strip clubs and what was inside. He understood. To make a long story short, his friend ended up taking him, knowing I would object. AFter finding out, I thought I knew the whole story. It was very hard for me to get over that.

This past weekend I was with the same friends that took my husband to the bachelor party, except with the wives of the men who did it. They mistakenly let it slip that something more happened that what really did.

To sum it up, my husband was given a lap dance I just found out last night. I don't know how to feel, I was lied to by my husband and by my so called friends. I love my husband to death and this is the only thing in my life that I feel so strongly about. Please help, I am feeling miserable.