[XxAnGeL_KiSsEsxX]

My boyfriend and i have been goin out 4 ova 7 months and i love him to bits i really do but he can let me down at times like tellin me at the last minute he stayin ova his mates house so i get a bit moody wit him and gutted cos im alone then and i just love his company! But i kno he has to be with his mates 2 so dont get me wrong!

Also i remember 1 time, his mate knows i dont like my bf watchin porn or anything wit really sexy girls init only cos he always comes out wit stuff like "i'd love to rag her" Which makes me feel so unwanted. And then it makes me want to be just like that girl but i kno i cant be! What am i gonna do i told him i dont want him to say that in front of me n all but he just laffs about it and sez "at the end of the day i love u and no1 else" Which makes me feel betta but deeply inside still thinkin "wud he rather be wit sum1 else"

When he does sleep ova his mats house i fone him up to see if hes avin a good time and ask him whos he with and wen he says sum girls names i get scared cos 1 time he went clubbin like 2 months wen we were goin out and he stayed ova his bros and he wakes up in the living room and sees a girl sleepin there then she spreads it round that he raped her but im tellin u all this i kno my bf well anuff not to rape any1 and ppl no this girl to lie alot but the point is i wana kno y she was there and sumthing was wrong wit his *coughs* at that time to. What do u think that is? He also told me "sorry if i did do anything wit this girl i was well drunk and i didnt want it to happen" Which i believe but do u think i shud? And do u tink i shud tlk to him about it even tho i had dun b4 but sed he cant remember ?

Im in a huge mess wot shall i do ppl its urgent!!!

[rach2354]

First, I'm so sorry he treats you that way. I think you should just tell him how you feel, and if he still goes out with his friends and hangs out with other girls doing whatever, tell him that he doesn't deserve you, because if he's doing all that, he doesn't. Don't for one minute think that it's okay for him to use being drunk as an excuse for messing around with some girl. He shouldn't be putting himself in the position to do something like that in the first place if he truly loves and is committed to you. Maybe you should try to go with him to his friend's house every once in a while and hang out with them.

I wish you the best of luck...sorry if this didn't help...

[GirlDown]

hands down, the guy is a total scumbag.


he doesn't know if he "did something" with another girl. but if he did, he's SORRY????!!!! ew. i'm sorry, but ew.

the sooner you separate yourself from his company, the sooner you will get over him.