[jtree]

I need some advice, I am 29 yrs old and was dating a girl who was 26, she broke up with me because she said she wasn't happy.

She treated me badly the last couple of weeks before breaking up with me, by ditching me, lyeing, and just being a bitch. Plus she made me buy her $1200 worth of furniture 2 weeks before she broke it off and hasn't paid me anything. I spent well over $5-6K on her in almost 2 years we were together, and have never seen any of it. Plus she stopped having sex with me for the last 4wks of the relationship.

Right after the breakup she wanted nothing to do with me, I mean nothing. Said "she would rather die than be with me again." Then turns around and calls me when she had to get rid of her dog, and continues to communicate with me thru emails.

One morning I went by her house after she told me she had no water, and didn't want to shower at my place because she was too tired and didn't feel like driving, but wasn't home a couple hours later around 1:30. i came back by around 7am and called her from my car down the block, she got angry and called the police. Nothing happened to me and this was only a week and a half after the breakup.

then she calls me and emails between each other start and nothing was bad up til this past Friday, I went to her work on Sat. to give her the rest of her stuff and left, then later her dad calls saying she tells him I am calling her and is frantic, eventhough I never called.

I called her 10-15 times from Sunday afternoon til Monday night, Teusday morning I get arrested for stalking and terroist threats against her. I go to jail, post a $12,500 bond to get released and then get a restraint order from her to have no contact with her. All this within 2.5 weeks of breaking up. and she was all cool and nice the last week or so, emailing me and ****.

now I face either felony or misdimeaners for the 2 charges and have to go to court for the restraining order. Plus i had to pay a lawyer $3K. All the statements she made were lies and I have emails to prove that, but $15K I have already spent just because she lied and charged me with some bull****.

I know everyone can see she used me and screwed me hard, but I really love her. she has destroyed me and may ruin my life because she isn't dropping the charges. there is more but it would take pages to fill. Anyone have advice besides stay away from her?