[InLimbo2]

I first posted here back at the beginning of May, wondering if my relationship would/could work out. I posted some updates in between - about letting him go and living my life and leaving the door open to return, but not waiting for him.

It's now three months later, and I am a very very happy woman! We went back to an exclusive relationship, things have just gotten better and better - he knows I love him and he feels secure in that - I know he loves me and given that it's taken him 10 months to be able to say it (he doesn't say anything he doesn't truly mean), I'm damn sure he means it! We've had a few issues crop up, but worked them all out with time, patience, committment, and communication.

We recently discovered the only major issue we face - yes, we fought - but we made up and decided to table it for the moment - until we can sit down with a counselor, an objective professional - and work it out.

We just finished a wonderful weekend of partying with friends, working on my house, making love, looking forward to our vacation with my kids next weekend, and our no-kids trip to Jamaica in January.

Yes, if you are meant to be and you really have a good relationship that is just under stress - if you ease the pressure, give in a little, compromise - set them free and let them come back to you because they can't imagine life without you - they will!

[trouble]

Thanks for the post.
I am glad to know that you are happy now and took the time to come back here and give us a good success story. Good luck

[junegloom]

Hi InLimbo2!

Could you tell us what happened between you two, and how you got him to come back to you? (If you did anything, what did you do?)

I'm going through a break up where the relationship was great but we fought about marriage. It's not that he didn't want to marry me, it was that he's not ready.. and I didn't understand that, hence the fighting. I would love to know your story as some guidance.

Thanks!

junegloom

[junegloom]

Hi! Please disregard my last post. I read your previous posts on what happened and what you did to get him back.

I'm trying to be cool with my ex as well. I'm trying to show him I accept this and I'm strong and happy independent of him. My performance has been very convincing, even my close friends think I'm getting over it, but I don't tell them that it's extremely difficult, but it's getting around to my ex I'm pretty sure. Recently I saw him and I was with another guy (just friends, but my ex didn't know that). My ex got very jealous and was doing stupid things to retalliate - it was so transparent and totally didn't affect me at all. He's not like that and I could see he was doing things just to make me jealous. What do you think? Is there potential here?

Thanks,
junegloom