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Can he stop.

I posted 'im pregnant and H wants out"

I finally took your guys advise and I spoke to my parents about my problem. I let them know that he left. I just had the baby, he is 2 weeks old.

I am moving out in 2 days I am gone. Its only 3 hours away but its a start.

After 8 years of marriage its the first time I leave.

He asked me if I was sure about what I was doing. I know he wants me to stay because of the kids but also I know he needs me here financially, and I dont want to be a door mat anymore.

He mentioned to a friend of ours that he knows I will always be here and that pissed me off.

He has said to more than one person that I am a great wife, a wonderful person, and he wont admit to his friends that he is messing around.

I still love him and its hard for me to leave but I think thats the next step I need to take.

I dont know if I am doing the right thing, I wish he would stop, can he, will he. I deep in heart hope he looks for me but I am afraid I will come back to the same situation.

Can guys stop being cheaters

Are there any guys here that can tell me if they once cheated and stopped?